Because (1) In (3) Is One Too Many. Join Me In Placing Something On the "Endangered Experience List"!

 My name is EPJake.  Many of you know me.  Many of you do not.

I am sharing a story with a very specific purpose.  I have been doing some research around domestic violence and abusive relationships.  I found a very frightening and very real statistic.  1 in 3 teens say that they have been in an abusive relationship by age 18.  As if this number, in and of itself, wasn't scary enough... in digging through stories and the like, I found that what is most disturbing is how these abusive relationships that happen in the teen years are often with the first person that the abused person really feels that they loved... their first experience with romantic love is tied to this aspect of violence.... and it can become hard to see the too as separate.  It skews a persons perspective in ways I can only imagine.  I too have suffered emotional abuse although not in a romantic relationship.  I know it is something that I carry with me each day.

I have pulled together a petition / pledge with a "bill of rights" of sorts that I think we should all keep in mind.  I am posting this story as a call to action and I hope you will join me.  I hope you will take the time to sign the petition.  To pledge your support.  To stand up and say... not me.... not you... not anyone.  Because no matter what, I think that (1) in (3) is ONE too many.  Because this may be an experience we have in common... but one that I think we all wish we could put on the "Endangered Experiences List."

Please join me.  Please show your support.  Please share this with others.  Let's make a difference together.  I leave the rest up to you.  Thank you for reading.

This comes from my heart.  Please help me, us and everyone out there who is suffering in silence either by choice or because they simply don't know different by standing up - TOGETHER.

EPjake EPjake
26-30, M
3 Responses Mar 5, 2009

horrible thruths aren't they? I know I don't want my sons to treat their girlfrinds in such a manner nor do I want my daughter to be treated that way......thank you for the post

No deletion... so your comment may have only been in your mind! ;) anyway thanks for signing!!!

thanks jake this is a really great thing you are doing-flour