people ask why did you stay, l guess they don't know how trapped you feel, how worthless they make you feel, what a failure in life you feel, the embarrassment of saying to your family
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2 Responses Sep 11, 2015

Ugh. It's so easy for those that have not been there to make statements like that. Ignorance at its worst. And it's that stigma that they give to those that have been in an abusive relationship that makes its so tough to leave and overcome it. They don't understand the amount of conditioning that someone who has been abused has gone through and that typically this occurs over a long period of time. It's never as simple or as black or white as they believe it to be.

I do understand .. add n lets chat in detail dear ?/