I Have Been Married 5 Years
We in fact made it a whole 9 years before I could not stand life with her any more. Then I took 1 kid and the child protective services brought the other 2 a few weeks later. I fought hard for her not to go to jail and the state was pushing for criminal child abuse charges against her. She gets to visit them a few weeks in the summer as she and the children stay with her parents which is their grandparents. We are both veterans and we both went thru a lot of bad **** together. Its just I can deal with it better than her. I wish she hadn't moved back to her home state, but it was best for her. I wish she would see her shrink and take her medicine but it makes her sick to her stomach. I miss the on her medicine before combat version of her. its the off her medicine nut case no body can deal with. A lot of people hate their ex's, and I truly do hate my first babies momma, But miss my crazy ex-wife, just the before version. I could not stand to be around the after version.
I brought in help and did every thing I could including finding her help with the house work and kids. She was getting worse in the head and when some friends came by to check on her and the kids the called me at work and I was there in five minutes. The kids had been locked in dog kennels while she went off down the street and still was not home when I had gotten there. If it were drugs or alcohol I would have called the cops myself. But this is a women who has been thru a hell that 99% of the public will not understand. Her head is just screwed and I want whats best for the kids and that is to know their Mom is mentally disabled from a service related injury that is still classified. Rather than think of their mother as just another lazy lying thief child abuser behind bars. I knew her best and really believe this was a sad story of a veteran who was denied her mental health care that would have saved her marriage and family. As for today that was 3 years ago. Every one is waiting for me to propose to my next fiance' shes the only mommy my youngest has ever really known. I have a lot of marriage experience some good some bad. But I am not married so I'm not in that group as of today. I am in a long term relationship and I don't share or cheat, I just hooked up with woman who miscarried and then lost her husband to cancer. I met him a few times he was a nice guy. She was just someone I knew from student clubs and political campaign work. Who would have thought 6 years later we would hook up.
I brought in help and did every thing I could including finding her help with the house work and kids. She was getting worse in the head and when some friends came by to check on her and the kids the called me at work and I was there in five minutes. The kids had been locked in dog kennels while she went off down the street and still was not home when I had gotten there. If it were drugs or alcohol I would have called the cops myself. But this is a women who has been thru a hell that 99% of the public will not understand. Her head is just screwed and I want whats best for the kids and that is to know their Mom is mentally disabled from a service related injury that is still classified. Rather than think of their mother as just another lazy lying thief child abuser behind bars. I knew her best and really believe this was a sad story of a veteran who was denied her mental health care that would have saved her marriage and family. As for today that was 3 years ago. Every one is waiting for me to propose to my next fiance' shes the only mommy my youngest has ever really known. I have a lot of marriage experience some good some bad. But I am not married so I'm not in that group as of today. I am in a long term relationship and I don't share or cheat, I just hooked up with woman who miscarried and then lost her husband to cancer. I met him a few times he was a nice guy. She was just someone I knew from student clubs and political campaign work. Who would have thought 6 years later we would hook up.
By:
jenni48509
Age:
36-40
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Transgender
