Serial Cheater Husband

I have had many arguments with him and he would say he was sorry. Now he does not even say he is sorry anymore. i think he just figures
i allow it. i know i am a dumb *** and i just made an appointment for counseling for me because i don't know what to do. If was to give somenone else advice i would say,,,,, leave that jerk!. I also cant believe all the other women who believe men on fb and other dating
sites. He has had such good luck with women and real relationships with women from these sites and never do they question meeting
his family or going to his house. He has proposed marriage to these women. Right now i can log into his internet access and fb and i read
everything he writes to women and he sounds so sincere. I have even read his arguments and break ups . Some break up are because i
called or text them telling them he is married. I feel that i am abcessed with this and i am sacraficing my own happiness. My dignity is gone
and i have very low self asteem. My friends and family think that i am happy. I have no friends that i wish to share this with.
mlhudson50 mlhudson50
51-55, F
1 Response May 18, 2012

I'm so sorry for your pain. Yes, you need counseling, as you have taught this man that its okay to continue this charade over and over again without consequence. You will never change him, don't waste your time trying. You need to see the positives in yourself that other see, and understand that you deserve better than this. You have a long road ahead of you, but the end result will be worth it. You know what you need to do, and you've taken the first steps - that' huge! Stay strong and keep moving forward and refuse to be sidetracked on your road to happiness. Good luck!