My Teenaged Daughter Runs Around The House Naked.

I have recently retired and spend a lot of time around the house now. I discovered that as soon as my daughter gets home from school in the afternoon, she takes her clothes off. She sits at the dining room table doing her homework, she watches television, whatever, naked as the day she was born. She has friends over, and it depends on who the friends are, some she puts her clothes back on and some she just stays naked. I've never seen her do anything vulgar or inappropriate, except romping around naked. I just don't know how to handle this. Part of me wants to tell her to not be naked in front of me, part of me wants to just ignore the situation altogether. With the risk of sounding perverse, I do kind of enjoy it. She's not that bad to look at. What's a father to do?
williabg williabg 56-60, M 34 Responses Mar 30, 2012

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Why don't you just ask her since she likes to be nude it makes you encouraged to do the same thing So would she mine if you could be nude around her! All she could say is No!

Another pervert comes out of the woodwork.

Hey did I say SEX! NO NO NO! we are talking family nudism that is practiced by Millions around the world Dude! You may not believe or practice it but do not put Down people who do!

He's past that point already, and you know it. Based on what he's already said, and starting later, rather then earlier, it is too late. He's already turned on sexually by her. That's not the purpose of family nudity and you know it.

Pardon me but ANYONE can decide they want a change in their lives at any age!
Many people choose nudism later in life. This is an activity, Not something that you either have or not have like you are born with.
If the Father thinks the daughters nudism is something he would like to partake in and also enjoy that nice feeling of being without clothing, then more power to him!
There are very little laws that would stop a family from practicing Nudism.
In Oregon You are allowed to be outside nude in most communities!

He's already admitted that he's turned on by her, that he's noticed how she's shaved her *****, so give your head a shake. This is not even starting out non-sexual.

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You don't mention if you live with your daughter's mother. I'm just supposing you don't. In which case I'd be asking your daughter what kind of thrill she gets from stripping off. Were she in contact with her Mom I'd ask her to have a mother-daughter talk with her. There isn't anything abnormal with the human body - there are times our six-year-old son sees both me and his Mom unclothed at home - but if you feel uncomfortable about seeing your teenage daughter nude then it's your home and your rules and you have to tell her as much. You don't mention how old she is - if she were say 13 I might interpret it as an early act of teen rebellion, if she were say 17 I might wonder about her motives.

Let her be naked as much as she wants. It's healhty especially that she don't do anything sexual. Try to be naked as well.

Some people are so stuck up! People have nudity tied with sex because they are not intelligent and discipline enough to handle it. They are weak minded and afraid. In many countries now, families have seen each other nude and some live nude in their tribes or town. And guess what, they have the lowest rape and other sexual crimes anywhere. Nudity is a part of life and they don't have to fantasied and become criminal with those actions.

In a household, living together is a burden if you have to hide and sneak around to change your clothes or in the shower. If you can go to a gym's or pool's and take a shower and use the bathroom in front of strangers, why are you scared in front of your family?

My daughter is so comfortable with no clothes on. She is only dress when she leaves the house. Our family and friends see her all the time and it is normal for us. We all don't see it as sexual. If she wore shorts and a shirt, she will still be treated the same.

My friend and I was skypeing. She was at her desk and you can see behind her. The stairs and the kitchen's opening. Her daughter came downstairs and went to her and then go to the kitchen. She was completely nude. I'd asked her who was that and she said it was her daughter. She was always nude. Her other daughter answered the door and her and her naked daughter's friend entered the room. Her naked daughter came downstairs and met her friend. They were going back and fourth as we talked. My friend said that her daughter loves to be nude at home and no matter what, she says nude at home, even with other guests comes over.

Very well put. A sensible post.

Everyone should go nude and especially at home. Good on all those that do.

I agree with you I am nude with my friends and their daughter every time I go to their's nothing sexual we just all enjoy being nude

Accept it. Telling her the naked body is wrong will only give her hang-ups that she doesn't need. We all have naked bodies and unless it is cold there is non real reason to cover up. Religion/Society has it all wrong. Nudity is NOT immoral it is thought of that way because someone once said so and no-one was brave enough to stand up to them. Nude does not mean sex. Sex is something that loving people quite naturally do and id does not have to include being nude. Let your daughter live her life as naturally as possible. Yes, I am sure you like looking but as long as that is ALL then no harm is done.

I guess I should be ashamed because I acknowledged that I have a pretty daughter, huh. I never said anything about any desires. I never eluded to any perversions. I never mentioned any sexual misconduct in any way shape or form. If you can't hear about someone being naked without thinking you have to go hide somewhere and get yourself off, that's your problem. Not mine. Being naked and having sex are two completely different subjects. At least they are in my household.

Be a ******* father, you pansy-assed ****. If you are feeling stirrings about your own daughter, you need to tell her to put some clothes on when she's around you. Be a ******* man. Your daughter has a problem too, running around naked in front of Daddy is inappropriat, after a certain age. All you ******* morons that are saying, " she deserves to be nude." , have got your heads up your own *****. It can be called incestual even if nothing happens, and the thoughts are there. Yea, she deserves to be naked all she wants, as long as Papa isn't present. What kind of father says about his own daughter, " She's not bad to look at.", and what collection of people support this. I'm no prude, by a long shot, but I also know right from wrong. You ******* hillbillies that don't see a problem, would probably support marrying your first cousins too. Why don't you all sit around a camp fire and sing Koom Bya together. Get in the real world.

Would you like to join my Kumbaya sing-along?

When I posed the question a year and a half ago, it was NOT about my daughter, it was about me. I felt awkward having just retired and spending more time around the house only to discover that my daughter spent a lot of time naked.
It took me a while to adjust to it. It is her house as well as mine and had been her house more than it was mine as I was gone (to work) most of the time.
She's not the one that needed talking to, I was.

What the **** is the matter with you people? Daddy says he doesn't mind, because she's not bad to look at, and nobody seems to see a problem with that?!!!' Are you kidding? All of you who answered incorrectly, give yourselves a slap upside the head.

Have you ever taken any photo's of her while she is naked?

dude its his daughter

and also she should have the freedom to be naked and let it be innocent

Let her be herself and be nude.

She sounds like she's comfortable making her own decisions and is comfortable covering up when it is necessary.
If it begins to bother you, rather than talk to her about the discomfort, try to allow her to be herself and take up an absorbing hobby.

Let her be. It is very comfortable.

Allow it to be the natural action that it is. She's obviously very comfortable nude, and probably has been for some time. She show's maturity in her decisions to dress for friends who are uncomfortable, and it sounds like she is dressed in the evenings when the rest of the family is home.
Honestly, I would commend her for being so casual, and encourage her to continue living how she is comfortable.

post a pic of her and will decide that way

Join her and enjoy it but ask her if she minds first. Be subtle about it just not bothering to dress when you don't need to. No funny business 'though.

Se is very comfortable nude around you and her friends. Let her. My daughter gets nude as soon as gets home and never puts nothing on. When family and friends come by, she still is nude. She had a slumber party last weekend. Some how she got everyone nude for the week.

What's the problem? She's happy - you just be happy about it...!

If it is turning you on - you might want to ask her to stop.

let her be naked,shes not doing anything dirty and like you said she does look nice

I grew up in in a clothing opp home with one sister, we were aloud to be naked from very young and were most of the time during the summer months. My mom was topless or naked much of the same time. Skinny dipping with our parents was common.<br />
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My two daughters grew up the same way, sometimes they would wear clothes much of the time naked. Both girls now in their 40's both with kids, one still enjoys the nudist lifestyle with her own family.<br />
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I suggest you let her do her thing, as long as there's nothing sexual about it what's it to hurt.

First thing you should do is voice your support for her making the choice to stay nude in front of you as it was a brave and mature decision for her to make.<br />
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You didn't mention having been nude in front of her, but if you haven't you should come out of your bedroom nude and asks her if she minds you joining her in being nude at home. Then you can be a lot more comfortable discussing things and make observations. It would then be very natural to comment on her having shaved her pubic hair and asking if she thinks you should try it too. It would also be a good thing to have your wife join in the family nudity.

let her keep being nude at home as long as she not causing any problem doing it, beside it always nice to see a hot ypung nude body.

She is causing a problem. She's turning him on you idiot.

My wife and I plan to allow our children to be naked around the house, regardless of age (once they're potty trained, that is). We learned that by being so open about being naked, it'll open up the doors of communication as well as allowing them to be comfortable in their own skin. As long as she's okay with it, and you've described her to be a well mannered girl, let her. It'll go a long way in not only building her confidence and positive outlook of her body, it'll open the doors of communication as well.

can i visit you? but even though i'm as perverted as anyone at the end of the day man it's your daughter for godd's sake, tell her to cover up because by the way you are questioning it here is a definate sign you're considering crossing a line beyond her nudity soon

I have never had a perverted thought about my daughter and can't imagine having one. My concerns were not about that, but rather about my conscious. Setting a personal, right or wrong, "Is it right, wrong or indifferent to have a teenaged daughter naked or not?" I have pretty well decided it's indifferent. I don't care if she's naked or not it's up to her.

When you say she is not bad to look at, you have already crossed a line that no father should. Stop looking for validation, from all of the people that are replying, so you can keep doing what you know, and your daughter knows, deep down inside, is wrong. Grow some balls, be a parent, and put your little head back in your pants

i'd have to say it's wrong then but once again its down to personal choice really just do whatever you feel is right by you and her no matter how others judge it

Thank you. How can so many replies be so perverted. Everyone is thinking with their sexual organs instead of their brains.

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It's a testament on how she has been brought up, she's comfortable being naked around you and feels safe, it's fantastic that she not inhibited being nude around you, well done.

I had two daughters, and both of them ran around the house naked most of the time during summer months. Their mother didn't help as she did the same. They continued untill they left home. Both now in their 40's, one still enjoys the nudist lifestyle with her own family.<br />
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Some people just enjoy clothes free, if she's not doing anything stupid let her be.

Just enjoy the site of her like she is.

mmmm wish i could see your daughter around the house as well.

Are you missing the point of this discussion, you idiot.

As a bit of follow up, I found out that she'd been doing this all along, but had always put on something like a t-shirt and cut off jeans just before I got in from work. Since I was no longer "coming home from work", she figured what's the use? The wife isn't quite so bold, she keeps her bra and panties on, but I'm not intimidated by the wife like I am the daughter. I don't know what's appropriate here and what's not. For example, I noticed that my daughter just shaved herself bare. Do I dare comment about it to her? Would a "that looks nice" be something a father would say to his daughter? There's all kinds of little things that I guess I'll just have to figure out, huh?

Maybe you should just talk to her and be honest about your feelings. She obviously feels comfortable and safe around you if she can be naked in front of you.

It is good that she is comfortable at home,and with the people at home too!

I think your daughter is a strong, confident young woman who has decided she's not shy to let her dad see her naked.

And if she's waxed or shaved her *****, sure - why not just tell her you like it &amp; prefer the look smooth. If you're concerned it might be misinterpreted wait till your wife is present to say it.

Girls her age almost all remove their pubes nowadays - she doesn't want to be the odd one out in the school gym showers.

Who knows - your wife might wax too - THEN you'll find out how pleasurable it is having sex with a smooth *****!

Has your daughter ever made any remarks about your body - the size or your penis etc?

Looking for validation again, you idiot. Answer your own question. What do you think? Of course it's not ******* appropriate. Man have you ever crossed a line that no father should. Get down on your knees and pray. Beg for direction and forgiveness.

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