"I Have Been Tempted to Call My Ex Today"

I don't know why really but I have been thinking about my ex boyfriend a lot today. He is in another relationship so I know he probably wouldn't even answer my call since I know he has caller ID. I really miss talking to him but I knew calling him was not a good idea so of course I did not do it. What makes us want to do these things? I know it is stupid. He moved another girl in with him just a couple of months after we broke up. We were engaged and together for 2 1/2 years. He did me kinda dirty in the sense that just one month before he moved this girl in with him I went out with him and he acted like he wanted us to go back together. I should hate him but I don't! He barely even knew this girl and she lived in another state. He met her face to face because she came here to meet him. Apparently they had been carrying on a telephone relationship. Just two weeks after her visit with him she moved in. I still feel angry at times! She moved in with him early February and they are still together! What are the chances of that happening? I am glad I did not call him.
cmost cmost
36-40, F
5 Responses Jun 1, 2007

take solice in the solitude you have, utilize it to heal from this man - you said in one of your stories that all the men you meet are on the rebound ... perhaps you need to take more time between relationships healing? what you put into the universe (your energy) is what you will get back = you too are on the rebound and not over your ex's before starting another relationship. take more time and put your feelings to rest before you move on again. it seems lonely at first but WOW! the stuff you will accomplish is amazing!

Oh no, don't give him the satisfaction of knowing you're thinking about him. You have to deal with your feelings, though, so find something to do. I pined away for a guy for years and I'm so sorry I wasted my time. I'm not saying to jump to another relationship, just do something to make yourself happy.

Oh no, don't give him the satisfaction of knowing you're thinking about him. You have to deal with your feelings, though, so find something to do. I pined away for a guy for years and I'm so sorry I wasted my time. I'm not saying to jump to another relationship, just do something to make yourself happy.

we all get that feeling, like we cant let go and its when we're at our most vulnerable that we'll do something we'll regret. i'm glad you didn't call him. distract yourself with ANYTHING if it happens again. you deserve better

*hug* You're right, you need a distraction of the male form. This guy sounds like a true selfish jerk.