I am new to this, but I figured I should try to share a bit about my story. Doubt I need to go into too much detail about BPD itself, b/c this being a BPD site, you probably know all about it. I'm just SO OVER it at this point. I'm the biggest cheerleader for so many others who struggle with BPD or an other mental illness and I know I am good at giving advice, but how come I can't take the advice I give? I'm just so incredibly frustrated at this point. I'm 33 years old, married, with 2 young kids. Sometimes I feel like I have nothing left to give, but I know that is the BPD talking. I just am so frustrated.