Frustrated With Bpd

I am glad this was posted and appreciate the other two replies. Am new to this group and came to see if I could find a support BPD community. One psychologist says I have PTSD/BPD and a Social Worker says she does not believe I have BPD. It seems where I received counseling that BPD gets a bad rap at times. I like the fact that this community online seems to be the opposite of what I am being told in private sessions.



I cannot afford to shop around right now for another counselor, so I continue to push forward with the individual I am seeing.



I was wondering since the comments made under this discussion refer to self-like, how does someone get to the point that they accept themselves even if some others are making negative ones about you? I'm just frustrated that any progress I think I am making on the self-love part and spirituality turns out to not work at times.



Glad that the replies said that G_d is only perfect and to practice self-love. I would love it if I could find a counselor who can give constructive criticism; but also be able to show compassion when necessary so that maybe any difficulties in changing the personality might happen with a little understanding. I find it very difficult to change if someone says one kind thing; but turns around and nitpicks about a few other things.



Have a great day!

I really believe that the biggest task we have it to learn to love our selfs. Its kind of hard, Im not there yet, but I really believe it is the only way. You are good giving adivice becouse it is not to help yourself, im not being judgemental, I am a menthal health profesionist, I give advice all day, try to heal people all day, but I know my biggest task is to heal me, and I agree with the previous post, the only way is through G-d. Every time I am helping another person i try to conect that to the love of G-d, knowing He is the only one with real healing powers. All i can say is that you can try to conect to the love of G-d through anything, try to understand your suffering from another place, it is kind of hard at first, but with a little faith you can go a long way. Wish you the best.

make a commentment to ur self, a small one like u will never eat the mango juice in morning( just giving u example) and then make sure u full fill that commentment then try a bigger things, open ur heart always , only GOD is perfect. if u do not belive in GOD make a imaginative GOD, before giving advice and doing some think say ONLY GOD IS PERFECT i know nothing. make it a habbit u will see ur life will change.