You Have To Be Positive

Alright, I've been on this site for about a week now and It has been helping me because people who are going through similar situations are actually understanding me.

However, I've read a lot of stories on here and everyone's story is really sad and it seems like everyone is lost and confused. Everyone is wanting to be alone and hates their lives.

I have to say this with the upmost respect that whoever is reading this will take my advice into consideration.

Everyone who is posting on this sites NEEDS to STOP feeling sorry for themselves. Everyone is throwing themselves a pity party and everyone else who are commenting on the stories are simply saying "I know how you feel and it sucks, we just have to deal with it."

I've been through hard times but IT GETS BETTER! I PROMISE the first step is to STOP feeling sorry for yourself, stop telling yourself how bad your life is. YOU are worth more than a pity party that you put yourself in.

I've learned that no one is responsible for your own happiness but yourself. I want you straighten your back, wipe your tears and tell yourself that you are beautiful. Yes, bad things do happen but it's in the past, so leave it there. Take responsibility for your OWN actions and accept the past as is.

Things get better but you have to want it. Good things in life takes work. We are strong, we made it this far and we can only go farther. WORK for your HAPPINESS and OWN your life. Don't anyone else take that from you.

I'm just sick and tired of people posting stuff about how bad their life is when you have the power within you to change it. I just hope that whoever is reading this will listen to me. STOP FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF and LET YOURSELF BE HAPPY.

You deserve it.
Mka2012 Mka2012
18-21, M
1 Response Jan 19, 2013

Thanks for posting this. I just joined this group and I really needed to hear something positive.