I hope I'm at the right place asking for help because frankly I feel very confused and need some advice. For the last few months I have been seeing a guy who on and off will talk to me. He will be amazingly sweet tellin me he needs me in his life and wants a serious future with me and then a week or so later stops replying to my messages. Recently he told me that his mom has abandonment issues and has hoarding birds so she won't feel alone again. He on the other hand keeps questioning me about whether in not I will stay and wonders if I'd leave him when he is the one who shuts down every so often. I'm wondering of he maybe has the same abandonment issues or something similar as won't commit in fear of being left alone?!? Can someone please help me?