My Boyfriend Is In Prison And He Wants To Get Married.

I met my boyfriend on the internet in a chat room in 2006, he was 20 and I was 39 and we have lived together ever since then. I don't want to go into details about the crime he was accused of but he says he is innocent. The supposed crime happened in 2009 and for the last 3 years we have been waiting for the trial to happen, It finally happened in 06/2012 and he plead guilty as his attorney convinced him it would be best as the D.A. was offering a plea of 5 years and if he turned it down and was found guilty he could face life with no hope of parole so he took the plea, he won't get out till 2017 and he is wanting to get married now. We had wanted to get married before all of this happened but I couldn't get my husband to sign the divorce papers and I finally was able to afford an attorney and my divorce was final 09/2012. I love him but if we get married while he's in prison he will want conjugal visits and I don't know if I want to do that in a cell. But at the same time I know it would make his time easier but it's not just about him.
Any suggestions or opinions?
CoastalMississippi CoastalMississippi
41-45, F
1 Response Jan 22, 2013

Go with your heart if that makes you Happy and you feel u want to do it do