I Have Boyfriend In Prison

Missing My Soon To Be Husband &Amp; Think I Made An Mistake

By: vonniee23

Written on February 16th, 2013

Hi everyone , I'm new to things like this . I just needed some advice from people who have been in my experience . I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years we have an 5 month old son together . Me and my bf have an rocky relationship , he's quite fimilar with the law and I've always stuck around . My bf has done cheated and I gave him an chance due to our son ; but long story short valentines day my bf calls and states somebody was talking to him about me and told me to rip up the valentines card and letter he wrote never gave me an explaination ! So I asked if I can hang up to save the drama . Me being upset I ripped up the old letters and cards he sent . He ended up calling back a few minutes after , I asked him who said what he wouldn't say but told me it was irrelavent because it was in the past . I'm dealing with a lot at home and by him causing more stress added the fuel . So out of anger I told him " I don't want the relationship " ONLY for the fact I was angry and over reacted .

He gets 3 phonecalls out the day and hasn't called back the day of , yesterday or today ! I'm really worried and I want my relationship badly . I can admit I was wrong and I would love to apologize . Whenever we break up , we end up right back with each other . Nothing is never offical .

Help me , I need advice . I'm going crazzzzzzzzzzzzy . Lol I just want to know if anyone thinks its officially over or should I just give it time and wait it out

By: vonniee23

Age: 18-21 , Female

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12 responses

Gady222

Hey vonniee,
I'd like to say you should control what you say when you are angry. because in this situation people sometimes say hurtful words when they just can't control their anger. I get angry with my man but I try to control what I say so I don't hurt him and to avoid drama. Also, I agree with LUVELACE comment, hes more important. I know your boyfriend is your first love, and it hurts when you leave him. You are worth it and you deserve better man.

Apr 8
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LUVELACE

Your welcome,be a better parent for your son,he deserves his mom to love him and protect him,he is your little treasure,make him proud,he needs you for LIFE not just the next 20/30 years,children are gods gift to us,

Feb 23
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- vonniee23
  Thank u . My son is a blessing to me
  
  Feb 23
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LUVELACE

You have one very important question to ask yourself,and that is who is more important to you,your SON or your banged up convict of a boyfriend,he may be your first love,but your son now requires your love,but tell him about his daddy,and if daddy changes his life then let him back into your lives.dont let the boyfriend play mind games with you because it will affect you n your son.bite the bullet,suck it in and move on,if only for the sake of that little gift from god,YOUR SON.

Feb 23
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- vonniee23
  Thank you so much for your advice .
  
  Feb 23
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discoordinated

I don't know much about your relationship so can you explain why you want to have this relationship so much?

Feb 16
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- vonniee23
  We've been in the relationship for 5 years , we just had an son together a few months ago .. he is an loving person just possesive at times . Being that he is where he is , and has done things he said he regrets I guess he feels as if I will do the same . I've been with him since I was 16 . He's my first true love .
  
  Feb 16
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- discoordinated
  wow you guys have a lot of history. I can see why you want it to work out long term. Well, I can't say I have great advice for your specific situation, but I do know that sometimes prayers is the best thing when you can't reach someone you want to talk to. I will pray for you guys. Message me if something good happens, I always love to hear when God answeres a prayer.
  
  Feb 16
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- vonniee23
  Thank you . I'm trying fighting back my tears . hopefully ill get the call I'm waiting for tomorrow :)
  
  Feb 16
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- vonniee23
  I just want to know if anyone thinks its officially over or should I just give it time and wait it out
  
  Feb 16
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- discoordinated
  Give it some time I think. Men can really be slower than women at processing stuff. We tend to think really hard about things that hurt. That takes time. So don't jump to conclusions.
  
  Feb 17
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- vonniee23
  Thank u . I'm trying & still waiting ! "/ hopefully I get that call soon
  
  Feb 17
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