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'm 27 and been fighting cancer for almost three years now. It started in my colon and I beat that, in 2006 it spread to my liver and I beat that, this year it has spread to my lungs and I'm fighting that I was supposed to have my last chemo yesterday but they've picked up more nodules in my lungs and a growth on my one ovary. So I start all over again. I've been engaged for 3 years and want to marry the most understanding patient man in the world. He is really one in a million but I'm not sure I want to make him a widower before he's had a proper chance to be a husband. I'm not afraid of dying it's what it's going to take to get there that I'm scared of. 
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  | Posted Oct 18th, 2007 at 2:30PM Marry that wonderful man of yours and make everyday better than the last. I lost my husband over two years ago to cancer and I 'm going to radiation for cancer myself. We never know what life will throw at us, make everyday count. You are a fighter and survivor. Live, love and be happy for everyday you have... +5 nods   |
 | Posted Oct 18th, 2007 at 6:54PM You have beat the cancer twice and you can do it again. Have faith and believe you can overcome anything. We are all put to the test at one point or the other, just keep taking one day at a time. Good luck |
 | Posted Jan 7th, 2008 at 9:10PM marry your man. don't let cancer decide things for you. keep positive. claim healing for your body in JESUS name. i had breast cancer in 1998 and it was spreading. i am still here and i had a wonderful husband who stood right by me. we never know when it will be our last day, as long as you have breath and your here then enjoy the day.live love laugh. none of us is promised tomorrow. i will pray for you. there is power in prayer.i'm just a stranger but i care. i'm here if you want to talk. +2 nods |
 | Posted Mar 4th, 2008 at 12:13PM I thank you for your kind words, I know that they are true but it still hurts. I will pray for your health and hope I can be as strong as you. My mom is still fighting her cancer so we are still in the ring. I did read the book and it was great. I hope you and your husband have a great spring and kill the cancer! I know you will... Pablo |
 | Posted May 25th, 2008 at 8:45PM Get married and don't give up the fight. Read "The Secret" it could help you with positive thinking. |
 | Posted Aug 21st, 2008 at 4:12PM Live life to the fullest no Doctor can tell you when it is your time enjoy him everyday!!!!! |
 | Posted Aug 27th, 2008 at 6:12PM Beverley, stay strong. you can do it. Get married. Miracles happen |
 | Posted Aug 30th, 2008 at 10:57AM Dear, dear Beverley, I have researched cancer and it's causes for over thirteen years now - I lost a little brother due to cancer in '92 and began after his death. I also work directly with people with cancer; doing massage as well as offering insight on treatments that doctors cannot/will not tell you about. If you are interested, I will share with you anything/everything that might make a difference. Maybe it's time to think outside the "medical" box... Regarding your fiance, I would suggest you put yourself in his position. If you were him, would you NOT want to get married because he had cancer? I wish you health. I wish you peace of mind. I wish you all the love you deserve from this life. Share the love, Ashlen +2 nods |
 | Posted Sep 29th, 2008 at 8:36AM Live life the way you would have just imagined you would live , It is amazing how you can enjoy every minute,every second of life and have some wonderful moments shared with your loved one.Take the step.. And Believe me you will be healed..Just say you will be healed..I am sure miracle will take place. |
 | Posted Oct 23rd, 2008 at 7:26AM Marry him. I'm a man who's been through similar circumstances and believe me, if he is still standing by you, he knows what he is in for. Enjoy your lives together, fight the demons together, share the triumphs and the disappointments together, but for your sake and his - be together. +3 nods |
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