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Posted October 18th, 2007 at 9:16AM

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  1. grams - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by grams on Oct 18th, 2007 at 2:30PM

    Marry that wonderful man of yours and make everyday better than the last. I lost my husband over two years ago to cancer and I 'm going to radiation for cancer myself. We never know what life will throw at us, make everyday count. You are a fighter and survivor. Live, love and be happy for everyday you have...

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  2. bird - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by bird on Oct 18th, 2007 at 6:54PM

    You have beat the cancer twice and you can do it again. Have faith and believe you can overcome anything. We are all put to the test at one point or the other, just keep taking one day at a time. Good luck

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  3. nakuma - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by nakuma on Jan 7th, 2008 at 9:10PM

    marry your man. don't let cancer decide things for you. keep positive. claim healing for your body in JESUS name. i had breast cancer in 1998 and it was spreading. i am still here and i had a wonderful husband who stood right by me. we never know when it will be our last day, as long as you have breath and your here then enjoy the day.live love laugh. none of us is promised tomorrow. i will pray for you. there is power in prayer.i'm just a stranger but i care. i'm here if you want to talk.

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  4. pablo1977 - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by pablo1977 on Mar 4th, 2008 at 12:13PM

    I thank you for your kind words, I know that they are true but it still hurts. I will pray for your health and hope I can be as strong as you. My mom is still fighting her cancer so we are still in the ring. I did read the book and it was great. I hope you and your husband have a great spring and kill the cancer! I know you will...
    Pablo

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  5. Shaylon - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Shaylon on May 25th, 2008 at 8:45PM

    Get married and don't give up the fight. Read "The Secret" it could help you with positive thinking.

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  6. Airbornewife4life - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by Airbornewife4life on Aug 21st, 2008 at 4:12PM

    Live life to the fullest no Doctor can tell you when it is your time enjoy him everyday!!!!!

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  7. Kristen000 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Kristen000 on Aug 27th, 2008 at 6:12PM

    Beverley, stay strong. you can do it. Get married. Miracles happen

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  8. AshlenBright - 46-50 years old

    Posted by AshlenBright on Aug 30th, 2008 at 10:57AM

    Dear, dear Beverley,

    I have researched cancer and it's causes for over thirteen years now - I lost a little brother due to cancer in '92 and began after his death. I also work directly with people with cancer; doing massage as well as offering insight on treatments that doctors cannot/will not tell you about. If you are interested, I will share with you anything/everything that might make a difference. Maybe it's time to think outside the "medical" box...

    Regarding your fiance, I would suggest you put yourself in his position. If you were him, would you NOT want to get married because he had cancer?

    I wish you health. I wish you peace of mind. I wish you all the love you deserve from this life.

    Share the love,
    Ashlen

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  9. monieca - 56-60 years old

    Reply by monieca Jun 25th, 2011 at 8:25PM

    hi ashlen,,pleases please share what u know about cancer.this is my second time,,i thought i was thru.

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  10. superakh - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by superakh on Sep 29th, 2008 at 8:36AM

    Live life the way you would have just imagined you would live , It is amazing how you can enjoy every minute,every second of life and have some wonderful moments shared with your loved one.Take the step..
    And Believe me you will be healed..Just say you will be healed..I am sure miracle will take place.

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  11. optic140 - 56-60 years old

    Posted by optic140 on Oct 23rd, 2008 at 7:26AM

    Marry him. I'm a man who's been through similar circumstances and believe me, if he is still standing by you, he knows what he is in for. Enjoy your lives together, fight the demons together, share the triumphs and the disappointments together, but for your sake and his - be together.

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  12. Beverley - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Beverley on Oct 23rd, 2008 at 7:34AM

    It's been a year since I posted this story. I'm still fighting the Cancer. Going for chemo every 3 weeks. However I'm having a little break from it...... I'M GETTING MARRIED IN 2 WEEKS AND 2 DAYS TIME!!!!

    I'm so excited I can't wait!!!!

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  13. bandini22 - 51-55 years old

    Posted by bandini22 on Oct 24th, 2008 at 12:03PM, last updated Oct 24th, 2008 at 12:55PM

    Dear Beverely,I have serious health problems as well, and althoughI'm 54, I have a wife that's new to this country and two small kids and I worry what will happen to them after I'm gone. I'm all they have and it scares me. In some cosmic sense, a million years from now, it will matter little if we were on this earth for 10 years or 100 years. Life is worth fighting for. Every animal that has ever lived knows that. So keep up your coragous battle, have a family with this wonderful man, give life as it was given to you, and let your destiny take care of itself because it will anyway.
    Bueno te deseo pura vida, mi amor, tan larga como rica!

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  14. thedistracted1 - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by thedistracted1 on Nov 12th, 2008 at 9:14AM

    May God Bless You and May You be Well For Ever.

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  15. Pete3 - 46-50 years old

    Posted by Pete3 on Dec 4th, 2008 at 2:52PM

    Beverley,
    Marry him for marriage is eternal.
    God Speed,

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  16. nurinz - 22-25 years old

    Posted by nurinz on Dec 12th, 2008 at 9:43AM

    i totally understand how u feel, marry him, ur marriage will make u stronger and happier!

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  17. unicorn59 - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by unicorn59 on Jan 9th, 2009 at 11:11AM

    I am sorry to hear of your battle with cancer, at such a young age...My 23 year old daughter is going through stem cell rescue this month, for Hodgkin's Lymphoma....It's just not fair....

    That said....you should marry this man of your dreams....He's been with you through all of this....it's probably something he needs to do, as well...it's probably important to him, to be there for you.

    Do you have familial polyposis? Just wandering...you are awfully young to have colon cancer, but if it's familial polyposis, it usually becomes malignant in the teens and 20's...

    Pray...pray...pray....then believe it's been done....stretch your faith out there....I stand believing that this stem cell rescue will be the cure to my daughter's Hodgkins.
    Also, remember that Lance Armstrong had testicular cancer that had spread to his lungs and brain.....but now he is going to be a daddy again....Miracles do happen.

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  18. jaisonvarghese - 26-30 years old

    Reply by jaisonvarghese Jan 13th, 2012 at 10:15PM

    Hello sir, hw is ur daughter? hw is she feeling now? Iam from India, i was diagnosed with leukemia in 2008 when I was 26 year old and Doctor's told me that I will die in 25 days, But JESUS restored my life again, Iam healed of God, All glory to God, Now iam perfectly alright, and I took treatment for more than 2 yrs, all honor to God. Reply me please about your daughter, Thanks.

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  19. rameshtpn - 41-45 years old

    Posted by rameshtpn on Mar 1st, 2009 at 4:18AM

    I would request you to read the testimonials in the link given below

    http://ambikarealhealth.com/cancer.htm

    hope that this helps live you longer

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  20. GodsBeloved - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by GodsBeloved on Apr 16th, 2009 at 8:54AM

    Hi there,

    I have gr8 news for all of you :) You can receive your healing right now. You know something, God loves all of us soo much that he sent Jesus to take our sins and our sickness on the cross. Jesus loves us so much thats why he took our sickness on his own body so that we need not be sick.

    You know the disease that you have now in your body has already been borne by Jesus on the cross so you need not have it anymore cos God loves you and it is God's will that you be well. And by every stripe that fell on Jesus you are healed. You dont have to qualify to be healed..Cos Jesus already paid for it.

    It is every human being's blood- bought right to be healed and well. Cos the price was paid by God himself. Because he died you give you healing. Receive your healing right now..

    Pray this out loud. Daddy God, I come to you because of Jesus. Thank you for sending your beloved son Jesus to pay for my sins and bear away my sickness because you love me. Jesus, thank you that you came all the way from heaven to bear my sins and sickness on the cross, because you loved me. Thank you Jesus that all my past, present and future sins are forgiven because of your precious blood that was shed for me. Jesus, you allowed your body to be scourged and broken, just for me so that I can be healed of my disease.

    Thank you Jesus. I receive my healing right now cos you have already paid for it. I declare that I am healed right now.

    "Surely he (Jesus) has borne my diseases and carried my pains, the chastisement for my peace fell on Him and by His wounds I was healed"

    It may be a fact that you have the sickness..and the pain may seem more real than the truth that Jesus bore your sickness on the cross. Its just a matter of time as you keep believing the truth that Jesus bore your diseases on the cross, the fact will change. Truth is always constant but facts change and have to conform to the truth..

    When Jesus was scourged, he got up again and again to position himself to be beaten again because he wanted you healed. He never spoke up when the whip lash fell on his back because he kept his mouth shut and received the wounds on his back, today, you can speak up and say that you are healed. Keep saying out loud "By the strokes that fell on Jesus, I am healed"

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  21. Kitty6500 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Kitty6500 on Jul 22nd, 2009 at 7:54AM

    Beverley,

    I am 28 and have had cancer twice they even told me at 17 that I probably wouldn't be able to have children. Well My daughter is now 5 years old and I am healthy. I can't say it was easy after my second cancer the rest of my body started to give out. I had to have my gallbladder removed then got a bulging disk in my 6th vertebra then in 2008 my heart decided that it was it's turn not to work. this lead to 2 heart surgeries. But no matter what never give up. As far as this man goes do what you feel in your heart! I have a wonderful man now that has been in my life for the last 4 years and I know that he would be honored to be next to me when I die no matter how I die or when. I think you guys need to sit down and really talk about how each of you are feeling and decide together.

    I hope that I have helped you have hope and please know that if you ever have a hard day or just need someone to yell at send me a message I know how you feel. and if I don't I can always just shut up and listen.

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  22. Totallyoverit - 26-30 years old

    Posted by Totallyoverit on Sep 2nd, 2009 at 12:35AM

    From one Beverley to another (and it is even spelt the same) stay strong! I read the title of your story and id a double take! I thought someone stole my story. I was diagnosed with cervical cancer - an agressive adenocarcinoma when i was 27 - i beat that with surgery and chemo and when it came back 2 years later i beat it again with radiotherapy and radical hysterectomy - i can't have kids now but i married my man, built my dream home and got on with it! You can do it!

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  23. stepbackandtakeadeepbreath - 26-30 years old

    Posted by stepbackandtakeadeepbreath on Nov 7th, 2009 at 5:43PM

    Wow. You're as old/young as I am. Yet you have such a battle. You sound strong, which is good!

    Marry him. Enjoy the moment. Let him enjoy the moment. Don't think about 'what ifs' you have every right to enjoy what you have to the full! x

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  24. bffiwidawd - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by bffiwidawd on Nov 26th, 2009 at 1:42AM

    Be Positive and take high quality food supplements.

    Magic will happen provided you beleive in it.

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  25. samesongtwice - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by samesongtwice on Jan 14th, 2010 at 4:24PM

    Wow, at 27 that's unheard of to me. He must be a great guy. Better to have someone there with you then alone, right?

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  26. eric1111 - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by eric1111 on Jan 27th, 2010 at 3:13PM

    Please check out ,

    www.imterminallyill.com

    this is a place where cancer victims and terminally ill patients can collaborate together.

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  27. Kindal - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by Kindal on Mar 27th, 2010 at 11:45PM

    I"m so sorry and understand your feelings and why you don't wish to leave him a widow. Maybe it just doesnt matter to him and he loves you so much and wants to marry you and help you through this difficult time. My Mom passed of cancer about 4 years ago. It started in her breast then went to the liver then the brain and she died. She refused chemo but did the radiation.

    You have come so far. You beat it this far honey and I am praying you beat it the rest of the way and live a happy healthy life with your new husband. God Bless. Hugs Kindal

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  28. Andera231 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Andera231 on Apr 20th, 2010 at 5:40PM

    Beverly, I am not sure since this post is old how you are doing. I am also 27 years old. Tommorow I go for my colonoscopy. I am getting married on May 8th to the love of my life. I have been sick for 3 months. Mucus, blood, constipation, have deducted that the outcome of this colonoscopy could not be what I hope for. I remain optomistic however. I was thinking today that if it did come back cancer, would I go through with the marriage, for the same reasons you have stated. After reading this blog and the comments left I will get married no matter what happens. God bless.. Thanks for making a difference in my life.

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  29. kinkyjazmin - 16-17 years old - female

    Posted by kinkyjazmin on Jun 3rd, 2010 at 2:03AM

    You have beat Cancer twice and your will beat it again=]
    Marry that wonderful man of yours, because Cancer or no cancer none of us have tomorrow promised for sure so mightest well enjoy your life=]

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  30. kinkyjazmin - 16-17 years old - female

    Posted by kinkyjazmin on Jun 3rd, 2010 at 2:04AM

    You have beat Cancer twice and your will beat it again=]
    Marry that wonderful man of yours, because Cancer or no cancer none of us have tomorrow promised for sure so mightest well enjoy your life=]

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  31. Lorena562 - 70+ years old

    Posted by Lorena562 on Jun 20th, 2010 at 9:25PM

    I am also a cancer survivor, I can only tell you that you have to keep fighting until you have breath, no matter if it once or a thousand times. I have fought and won twice. marry me being sick. My husband and I knew it was the best husband in the world, and we love him three years of marriage because my husband and I have never felt alone. Good luck

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  32. Lorena562 - 70+ years old

    Posted by Lorena562 on Jun 20th, 2010 at 9:27PM

    I am also a cancer survivor, I can only tell you that you have to keep fighting until you have breath, no matter if it once or a thousand times. I have fought and won twice. marry me being sick. My husband and I knew it was the best husband in the world, and we love him three years of marriage because my husband and I have never felt alone. Good luck

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