Cheating Is Cheating, You Cant Dress It Up To Be Something Else!

When travelling round South East Asia I met some amazing people including this gorgeous Swedish guy called Christian. We quickly became a couple, and travelled round together.

He was a great guy, attentive, sweet, caring, loyal....

But being on your travels you do meet alot of people! 

I met this Englishman called Tom, to me he was beautiful, he would come out with us all at night. It was the Famous Full Moon Party and while Christian was grabbing everyone a drink I pulled Tom into the sea where we shared a passionate kiss, I then told him I wanted him and we headed off to his digs....

It was a great night of hot and horny sex but the next again day I scurried back to Christian and nothing was said of the night before.

Sadly Christian and I didn't work out, but I don't think I would have been able to go on knowing what I did to such a sweet guy!

DitaVonDiva DitaVonDiva
22-25, F
6 Responses Feb 22, 2010

I think you may have had an awesome long term thing w/Christian but your impulses got the better of you.Sometimes we regret the decision we made sometimes it turns out to be the right one.

i think remorse sometimes makes it all the more delicious when you go back to the wronged man. but i do agree with hohfarm -- how is it cheating if the guy is happy for you to do it? anyway, husbands are not holy. :)

If the partner knows and accepts the general situation it's not cheating.

hi again zsu!

You're still a baby. Learn from this episode and don't do this to your husband.

i think it's good to have remorse, but it's hard to pass up the passionate potential of a new lover!