A Woman With A Commitment Issue Is Unheard Of
I have a friend who ldolises her partner. They have been together for a long time now and are as much in love as they were when they first met. This is the couple that everyone wants to be. Everything on the surface looks like a fairytale as they love each other so damn much. However scratch beneath the surface and there is one issue that is in danger of making the whole relationship turn on its head, and that is marriage and more importantly, what comes with marriage........KIDS You see, he wants to get married but shes been putting it off for a while now, making various excuses. However these excuses are now running out of time, and its now time to deal with the issue head on. The problem she has is solely with marriage, not her partner (I MUST STRONGLY EMPHASISE THIS). She has always had a problem with marriage and wont even broach the subject of kids. She cant bare the idea of being tied down and being trapped (not that this will happen but nevertheless, its still a risk). However, her boyfriend is'nt as blind that she thinks. He knows whats going on. Deep down he's aware of her feelings, but i think that hes under the impression that she may, over time, change her way of thinking. And before you all start thinking, its probably to do with her childhood, i dont think that has much to do with it. Her childhood wasnt that different to the next persons. However, her parents have both been married twice so perhaps that may have something to do with it. Anyway she will soon have to stop resisting this issue, if she wants her relationship to move on and i think deep down she knows this, thats why she is sooooo confused at the moment. She wants to spend the rest of her life with this man, now if only she could get over this one issue of commitment.