My Wife Has DidI don't have DID, but I still need help. My wife of 17 years has been diagnosed with rapid cycling bipolar disorder. About 2 years ago I woke up to find that my wife was not in bed. After searching around the house, (and seeing a strange parked car in the driveway of the empty house next door) I saw that the answering machine light was bl
When I talked to the personality who had the affair, she said that I needed to let her have sex with whomever she wants, and that she loves c..k. My wife has always had difficulty keeping friends, although she has a great personality and is easy to talk to. Everyone has always accused of being a **** an sleeping with everyone. I knew of 2 other affairs in the past, but I am afraid there are probably dozens or even hundreds more. Including at least one of our current neighbors, and possibly her therapist. (After her first visit alone with him, my wife later told me he had been suddenly transferred to a clinic an hour away, and she was reassigned). The problem is that she is very beautiful, so I think seduction is very easy for her.
All these years, many time I thought I was going to go crazy, it has been very rocky. I just recently set up a second social networking account, an sent her ah email saying that I thought she was stunning and wanted to talk to her. She replied and asked what I did, where I lived, and told me her ex-husband was a -------------- and that she was raising two boys. So I know that her cheating hasn't stopped, even though she doesn't allow this alternate personality to come out around me very often (it may be her personality for all I know). I have stayed with my wife because I love her, and I want to see her get help, or at least for her cheating personality to stop cheating. There are several other personalities that I have met, some are more fractured than others.
My real concern is that I am deployed in the army, and she is alone with my two sons 13 and 15 y/o. I know she takes her anger out on me, but are my children in any danger of being abused by her. She has always seemed to be a good mother, but I only see what she wants me to see most of the time. If anyone has any advise, please help. Thank you