Well, It's Been Official For A Month NowI'm 38 and my parents have legally been divorced for a month now. The divorce papers filed by my father to my mother were served about 6 years ago, so this was a long & drawn-out process.
As a kid, I wanted them divorced because I didn't think it was healthy to argue or have heated discussions. I thought that the raised voices had to stop and divorce was the way. I felt guilt for having pushed them, even though I know that what I did wasn't why it all came to this.
I still feel the guilt though.