When I Was Four...

When i was four my father cheated on my mother so we left him. we came back for a few months but then it was really over. when i was that younge i had no idea what was going on, but now that i do i hate my dad for it. two years ago i found out how many kids he actually had. i am an only child for my mom, but on my dads side i have 3 half sister (all different mothers) 3 half brothers (two have the same mom all the rest are different) and 3 step siblings, they have the same mom but idk their gender. My dad keeps trying to get back into my life but i keep pushing him out because i don't want to be hurt by him again. but i feel like he's the only dad i will ever have... am i doing the wrong thing?
borisherc borisherc
13-15, F
1 Response Jun 2, 2012

yes. whats done is done, There is nothing you can do about it. imagine how the other kids feel. If you never want to have a relationship with him then fine. never talk to him again, but know that he loves you. Personnally i believe you shoiuld have a relationship with him. We only live once, and your dad may not always be around, dont you want to know him? to walk you down the aisle at your wedding? just think about it, the very least you can do is try.