Flaws = Beauty

I could make a list of all the things I see wrong with my body... but instead I need to make a list of all the BEAUTIFUL asset on my body... We as women always want to pick out are bad flaws... I did that a lot when I was younger and still to this day I do it... just not as much... and maybe I do it in a better way... by better I mean... wanting to drop some pant sizes cause its healthier... not cause the girl next to me looks better in my top(or thinks she does, LOL)... We all have flaws... but its are flaws that makes us BEAUTIFUL

MsJuicyBoo MsJuicyBoo
22-25, F
5 Responses Feb 23, 2009

let me restate that so it flows better....<br />
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I've got confidence... I just need lots more... lol... You can be confidence and not respect yourself... So you thinkin you lookin good... but lettin guys mis use and disrespect you... Thats what im workin on and doin great... WOOHOO<br />
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but yea, I know us women can be very hard on are selfs... We should love are selfs just as much as the guys...

I agree 100%. Perfection is in the eye of the beholder. I hate that my belly looks like a road map due to having Gods gift's to me, but my boyfriend has found beauty in all of me. .

I've got confidence... I just need lots more... lol I dont know how to say it... I think it Respect... you can be confidence and not respect yourself... So you thinkin you lookin good... but lettin guys mis use you... me thats what im workin on and doin great... YEA

YES that is... Tellin yourself and hearin that everyday is a wonderful and great idea... I will def. have to start doin that and add other things in there like self respect too...

Being a women is a powerful experience. Many people try to tear us down when we rise up, displaying our inner beauty. I can say that after years of being very insecure about my body, I can totally identify with what you are saying.<br />
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The list of assets is a great idea! I always do affirmations in the morning, as I look in the mirror. "I am beautiful", and most important, "I completely and totally accept and love myself unconditionally". The neighbors may think me nuts, but it's a great exercise!