Does My Guy Friend Like Me? 4 Signs Of Attractions From A Guy

As everyone knows, when guys fall for their dream girl, almost 90 percent of the guys will be absolutely shy to express out their own feeling. Either they are afraid of rejection or too ego to move first.


Sometimes, you can feel that a guy has been treating you differently as compared to others but he never tell you that he is interested in you. Then, thousands of questions will pop up in your mind such as ‘does my guy friend like me?’ or ‘is he interested in me?’. Therefore, it is essential for a girl to notice if a guy is interested in you or not so that you can give him some positive responses as an encouragement. So, how to know if your guy friend like you?


His glance


First of all, if your guy friend falls for you, he will always want to look at your beautiful look.  Your guy friend would love to stare at you especially when you are not aware of it. And whenever you notice that, he will look away. This is simply because he is shy or anxious. If this happened only once, most probably it is just coincidence. But if you catch him staring at you for more than three times, then the probability that he is interested in you is high.




After knowing that he keeps on looking at you, maybe you can offer him a chat. If he shows interest in talking with you, this shows that he could be possibly attracted to you. In addition, if he is smart, he will grab every single opportunity to get to know you more. At the same time, you can also get to know him better and decide if he is really the one for you or not.


For the first time chatting with you, be alert in the way he talks to you. Does he look nervous? Does his words cluttered up? Is he sweating? If he says out something wrong, does he apologize to you repeatedly? These are the major signs from a guy if he is interested you. Don’t worry; all you have to do is show him some good responses so that he can be more relax.


His action


When your guy friend is interested in you, the next step is to get closer to you. The most powerful communication tools nowadays are via 3G hand-phone and via Internet. He will send lots of text messages to you to show his care and once in a while chat with you through phone calls especially at night. Besides, chatting via instant messaging through Internet also another form of communication. There are a lot of emoticons that can be used and it is easier to express your feeling especially for those who are shy to express through words.


Bring you out


If your guy friend has a crush on you, he will definitely want to bring you out especially when hanging out with his friends. He wants to let his friends know his dream girl and of course he hopes that everyone will be happy for him.


In conclusion, stop asking yourself, ‘does my guy friend like me?’ because it is actually quite easy for you to know if your guy friend is attracted to you. This is because guys will show their intentions from their actions. If you feel that he is someone right for you, give him some hints that you are interested in him as well. Then, he will be motivated to move one step forward.



P.S>Have you ever been in the situations where you see a man who catches your eye and causes your heart to skip a beat with excitement? Or maybe there is a man you already know who you've started to fall in love, but you're afraid of scaring him away if he doesn't feel the same. What can you do if you find yourself faced with one of these situations?

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21 Responses May 17, 2010

Well I know I'm not the right gender, but I was looking up stuff like how to ask a girl out, then I ran across this site, and noticed that this is all TRUE. I kinda am shy to her, and only talked to her a few times... When the schools music program went to Disney I didn't really notice her well until the last day when we were waiting in line on the rock & roller coaster and she said "i'll sit next to you" or something like that, and that night I noticed that she likes me. Now I'm not sure what to do. I will sometimes look at her, and she will see me looking at her and I will look away. Same thing the other way around. I'm really bad at talking, mostly because of my ADHD meds. A few days ago Iforgot to take my meds and noticed a big change in how I talk, like I'm more funny, and I was more popular. This is the first day in a week that I took it. I just hate how I act so stupid. Hopefully there will be some type of article just like this, but for guys... Well actually this kinda helped me out but it would be be better knowing what a girl is like when she likes you. Hopefully I will get my act together and ask her out... Before I let it just roll of my shoulder

Hey guys. So I'm 14, in grade eight. I really like this guy, he's a good friend of mine. So we dated in the beginning of theyear but it was for like a day because my so called 'best friend' made me dump him for religious reasons. She threatened to tell my parents. But then she started dating a guy and now I can date without her stopping me. But after we broke up, everyone annoyed him and me. And one day one of my guy friends wrote a love letter to me anonymously to see his reaction to know if he likes me or not. So when I got the love letters, the guy I like ripped them in my face and he bought me a book of my favorite series. And then when my best friend (the one who made me dump him) told him that it was a prank to see if he liked me and that I was in on it, he got mad and told me he never actually liked me and that I just liked him. And now that best friend of mine flirts with him all the time but he doesn't like her but she won't stop and I feel like he might like me but he won't show it. And idk what to do.

This opened my eyes a bit. I have this guy who is my best friend and we've known each other about 2 years now but our friendship is as if we've been friends for ages we got close super quick and over the time of our friendship i developed feelings for him that grew stronger and I can say with all honesty that he is the love of my life but he doesn't know how i feel for him. He gives me so many mixed signals it drives me insane, the way he looks at me when we are together, the way he does things just to make me laugh, how much out of his way he goes for me. Sometimes i have this pretty strong feeling that he feels the same way for me, like if our love is so strong i can actually feel the connection. I'm just scared to be the first one to say anything because i really don't want to ruin the amazing friendship we have.

Hi! This helped me a little because my best friend whose name is Austin told me he liked me. I'm in eighth grade right now and I've known him since the end of sixth grade, and in seventh grade we went EVERYWHERE together! He would always take my hand and walk around the school with me and also when we were at band things he would always come to me after our performance and hang with me and stuff. I helped him bc he had a crush on my best friend; so I helped him with that. Well... I also had a pretty big crush (my first major crush) on his best friend, so him and I talked about pretty personal things too. He knows a lot of things about me even my closest girl friend or cousin even know! But I think I'm starting to like him... and a month ago he sent me a text saying "I don't have a great connection... but i wanna tell u something." so i said "shoot for the stars" and i couldn't believe my eyeballs... "well i sort of like u" i was like !!! idek, but now i'm pretty sure i like him since i've been over his friend for like six months now. so he told me just a while ago... idk if i should tell him how i feel or not, and idk how he really feels about me. We're pretty close, but the random and only occasional shy part of me is sticking through and I'm holding back info from my best friend in the world right now... i want tell him, but when? i'm so confused... could someone plz help me?? i am thirteen btw

So I've known this guy since kindergarten and he lived in my neighborhood ever since. I'm now in 8th grade...well I just read this and I agree girls you need to go for it while you have the chance. I told him the last day of school and when I did 2 days later he moved to Colorado. When I told him he was really shocked. We were best friends. I told one of my friends and she said whew because she thought I did. I told some of my other friends and they said of course you do because you flirt with him now I didn't know that. They also told me that it was obvious that he liked me. That made me happy. Well one day we were going to he library and it was me, him, and 3 other friends. My teacher looked me in the eye and said don't let him bother you. I asked what she meant and she said, "it's obvious that he likes you." I was very shocked which was fine. But right after that he came to my side and acted like nothing had even happened which really shocked me. He told me that it could have worked because he liked me too. Now he's moved half way across the county and it really sucks. All I have to say is girls go for it. If anything say that you don't want to ruin your friendship and you just wanted to let them know before it's too late.



My friend likes this guy. He likes her. They went out. he broke up with her cause he says 10 is to young to date. I really like him. He stares at me. We are good friends. He's hot, funny, smart, and a good listener. We talk a lot.i act like I hate him because he thinks he's so amazing(he is). He might be looking behind me but that would mean he looks at a lot of people who just happen to be behind me. I heard him say my name to his best friend. I used to think nobody could possibly like ME. Then I found out that the guy I have been talking about's best friend likes me. Another guy in my class likes me to. Another guy used to like me(I don't know if he still does he's not in my class). Me and my best friend have been in a lot of fights because I don't want to talk about boys my whole life. Also cause she thinks her life is so terrible and she wants to be the center of attention and everybody has to agree with her all of the time. She is still an understanding friend and fun. If the guy ends up liking me do I say yes and risk all of my friendships(. Most of my friends like him and the others wil get mad because I made the others mad).i don't even know if the guy likes me! Should I ask him, look for signs, if he says yes do I? I need advise!

You're 10. You shouldn't date till you're about 14, trust me. Saves a lot of heartbreak during the middle school years.

My family has been close friends with another family for a long time. We see each other about once a month. I am friends with their son who is around the same age as me. I’m not sure if he likes me or not. We dont go to the same high school. He likes to make short films during school breaks and always asks me if i want to be in them. His friends all take acting classes together but i dont. I would definitely not consider myself a good actor. Even when i was going on vacation he asked me to come for the script writing day. We sometimes used to go on hikes together. Recently he asked me to go skiing with him. Tonight when we went for diner at his family’s house we were watching videos on the computer and i was standing on the farside watching and he was on the other side and he walked around to stand next to me. We also watched some Tv, and we sat together on a blanket on the floor. Our knees were sometimes touching. When we sat on the couch he sat beside me. Can someone please tell me if he likes me? Please reply!

This was really helpful, but i still need my question answered, so if anyone knows the answer or have any ideas please reply, thankyou.okay, there is this guy in school (im not going to tell you his name), but we have become friends and all of his friends say he likes me, but im not sure. one of his friends - one of mine too - said he said that ' i am very talented' what does that mean? and i always catch him staring at me. the other day we missed the bus, and one of our teachers took us home, and e had a heart to heart on the bus ride home, it was really sweet. i have liked him in the passed, and i know he liked me before, but were are leaving school in may and i want to know now, because even if he doesnt do anything i can act on it too, and he is sooo fit! please help. thankyou :)<br />
( my lifetime quote " Life is all about chances and risks, all you have to do is pick the right ones to make your life perfect!")

hi there peeps
i have a friend thats a dude that ive been friends with for 3 yrs(since 5th grade)
i kinda like him but i dont know if he likes me back... what do i do?????

ask him. it wont kill anybody :D
plus if you're unsure search in Google '' and you can read on from there.
Good luck! :D

Sorry about grammar, spelling, punctiation, etc. I have a really awesome guy friend that I have started falling for from the 2nd year I met him. I am not allowed to date and when I can he HAS TO BE INDIAN (but I'm Indian and he's white, not to sound racist but it is a tradtion.[I can secretly date though :P]) One of my best friends is trying to help me but here is the problem. Three of my other besties have been crushing on him forever and have tried to get me to help THEM. My first bestie, the only one I've told, is honestly telling me he like me. He talking to alot, he's okay with the physical contacts, and we are really good friends. Not secret, gossip friends but just funny, open, friends. It's really hard to flirt with him and he doesn't have a phone and I can't text. WHAT DO I DO!?!?!? (sorry, I sound like brat.

if you are going to secretly date this guy, you've got to gradually open up to him...
and when you fell like the time is right, BAM.. GO FOR IT GIRL!!

Just go for it - it wont hurt nobody, if you both fancy each other.
You only live once, so instead of searching if he likes you on the internet, just ask him, and you never know, you to might stay together for ever :) life is all about chances and risks, and you just have to pick the right ones to make your life perfect!
Good luck, write what happened back on here please ;D . . .

Ugh.. So i just found out my guy friend liked me and he likes girls who are straight forward with him and i was too shy to say i liked him i missed my chance ): .. Dont do like me.. Just tell him!

You should follow your own advice - tell him you liked him, cos if he liked you, you have nothing to be embarrassed about :)
I done it and now im dating him, take a chance...
Good Luck xx

I have a guy friend ( Z) and were very close,and my other guy friend (F) said for me to take a chance because I laugh and talk to him alot on fridays,and i'm happy around him.
~ well I think my (Z) likes me in that relationship way,but he's not my a way...and I really dnt know what to do...everytime he tries to ask me out,im always shutting him down...and im only 13 and of course not allowed to date...

I have this guy friend who I love so much he has a special place in my heart. Every time there is a get together at my house we always end up apart from everyone having our own conversations, we always play around and wrestle and im so close with his family, we have had personal and emotional conversations, but he tends to hold back, he sometimes acts strange when I've gone out with different people or when I do something he doesn't like. I once dated someone and he didn't talk to me for a while :( . I have the biggest crush on him and I've told him before he never gave me a response the subject just got changed. The only problem is he's my brothers best friend and I don't know if that's what's holding him back. I get so excited when I see him and when I hug him he always smiles at me and holds me tight. Could it be that my brothers in the way or does he just want to be friends.? Everyone says we are always flirting and we might as well make it official, his birthday is coming up and I want to get him something special but I don't want to if there isn't anything there because I dont want to look stupid. Help!!

Hello, before I want to apologize because I have a bad English... :)
Well, the thing is that I like my friend. We spend everyday together. We go to college together and work part time at the same place. But we have very different personalities... I'm very extroverted and empathic and he is shy and calm. So It's hard to tell what he really thinks. The thing is that he started acting wierd towards me like not being very talkative and even he erase me from facebook all the sudden, from one moment to another. So I asked him what was wrong and he said: "nothing"- that's all. I realy like him a lot but now I am very confused.
thank you! ~~ ro

I have a guy friend we used to know each other for a long time. I'm just confused because he is acting different now compared before. He always want us to hang out and he always asked me to if we could go home together.Every time i told him that i'll be having a date with another guy he always asked me to cancel it and asked me to hang out.. I really don't know if he likes me more than friend or not... hope you could give me some advice... Thanks

EEEENOPE he no like me but i shall pretend he does! :D

Lmao xD i used to do that!

i like my best guy friend and people always say were flirting just bcu we talk everyday!<br />
everytime he sees me he yells my name so i yell his and i think tht maybe he does like me but hes dating my friend!!!!! IDK what to do!

thats how it is with me too.... iive got to the point where people joking about us dating isn't a big deal, but i would like that to be true...
we are really close but i feel like just a friend..

Yeah the thing is he already likes me but I really think one of his friends like me and I don't like him so its kinda grows

Well, he basically does all of that...except I have never met his friends which is the thing that keeps me wondering. My friend thinks he likes me, but that could just be her being encouraging. So I'm still not sure if he likes me or not and because of my low self-esteem I always think negatively. Any ideas?<br />
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Also to confuzzledgirl: He seems like he thinks of you as a great friend - don't give up with him, just see how it goes. Talk to him often and eventually he'll start talking with you. The closer you get the more likely it is to happen.

there is this guy who told me the same thing daysee!!! the thing is, I think that he might like me now....but I'm also unsure because he told me he is trying to erase the girl, a girl he went out with 3 years ago, out of his mind. Thing is, I think he is shy and he doesn't text me or chat with me from himself but when I do, he seems rather happy. Should I keep talking to him or should i just give up?

I have a guy friend that is doing just that. He said at first that we were just friends and that we were nothing but that. Then one day out of the blue that he loved me and that he was falling in love with me. I knew that something like that was happening because we were spending so much time together. Now we spend even more time together and just last week I told him that I love him. And that didn't scare him off because that is what thought that it would happen instead that made him get closer to me.