Dating Helpok. havent dated in 10 years but after a bad breakup i was ready, so i met this woman online a few months ago, we talked online for awhile and then decided to go out to dinner. she ran a few minutes late but we had a good time, had a lot in common and laughed the whole time. two hours flew by! sadly she had to leave to go pick up her very young daughter but she said she had fun and wanted to see me again. i of course said yes and was very happy.....this is where it starts to get confusing. she works 2nd shift and i work 1st so we dont have time to see each other except for the weekends but i texted her and she said she had more time to do something this week because of a weak case load. i asked her out weds for ice cream and a walk, something she said she liked to do but she declined becasue she was out of state at her mothers but said how about this weekend. so this weekend comes around and i asked her to go do something and she said she couldnt because she was helping her friend move, there's a storm and its hard with her daughter there. at this point im thinking she just isnt interested anymore so i sent her a text saying i was disappointed and i kinda felt that she wasnt interested and if thats the case say so, no need to apologize, etc...her reply was she was just really busy and that she really does want to see me again, that she would tell me if she wasnt interested and to please not take it the wrong way. it seems like she is being genuine, interested, etc but if i dont call/text her then i dont hear from her. sometimes she doesnt respond to my texts or it takes several hours (3-7) to respond, etc...so i guess my question is am i overthinking this or is she just blowing smoke at me and isnt really interested and is there anything i can do to peak interest?
mike2121 26-30, M 4 Responses 1 Aug 28, 2011