It was three days before I was to get married to my high school sweet heart. She was to be my first my one an only.Or so I thought at the time. I found out she had married someone else. She had regretted it because when I came home from boot camp in a Z28 I said get in, and she didn't. She couldn't just walk out on her stuff and her GM job. When My orders to deploy came up I had pushed up our wedding date to before I deploy to a combat zone. That is when I found out that since she was already married to someone. I had no paternity rights to my children. She had us all in a mess. He got laid off from GM and she had in him in jail on child support, after the third kid that wasn't his he attempted to disembowel her. Hey don't look at me I was getting blown up by bombs on deployment after deployment. She was just the community door knob, everybody had their turn. After being on EP I can see that she must have been a agirl that has to be shared I guess the term is cuckold. I just lost my father to AIDS. At 19 I had just buried my father and had a kid, joined the military and was shipping out.