Screw The Screwers

No matter where I am at in life, or what I do for others, somebody breaks my heart. It's not enough I do it once, but somebody expects more. There is no reason for it, and I find it necessary to put a stop to it. Just last night, an old friend called from out of the blue. She lives a long way from me, and has never paid me back a dime of all the money I spent sending her the things she wanted. Cigarettes, energy drinks, and even shoes. After getting fed up with my constant phone calls, she ended up changing her phone number without leaving any forwarding information. It was as if she was punishing me. Then, when she does call, her phone number is blocked from my caller I.D. Of course she has the gall to get all personal over whether I have a job or not. It's truly none of her business, especially after the shabby way in which she treated me. That is one reason I am very leery about starting a new relationship, the lack of appropriate attitude. The mind games, and all the rest. No thanks, folks

deleted deleted
4 Responses Dec 12, 2009

Man I just turned Joel Osteen on and he answered the many of the questions I have been struggling with. I have the same problem. The only difference is I am a girl and my user lives with me. We have two children. We have been together for 11 years, and out of 11 years I don't really remember a solid happy year between us. So no don't give up and she will see what you really mean to her in the end. But don't look back. They always get you when you look back.

I know how that feels. I 've had ****** friends like that who did what they did to you. It really messed me up. Now I don't want to hang out with anyone, fearing that this will happen again.

Sorry you had these kind of experiences....can't blame you if you have a hard time trusting people!....but with these you learned to be stronger...and that is a good thing, right? ; )<br />
<br />
I did learned the hard way ....but I will say that I don't regret anything!......after a while I even said Thank You to these people......because of them I learned great lessons of life...and I won't let anyone hurt me this way more mind games for me! <br />
<br />
Take care of yourself Stranger!: )

I totally get what you are saying. I think you do not need to just keep doing that **** and being stepped on. Take care of you. It's lonely, but I think it's better than continually being used. Very hard to trust anyone after some experiences.