Visited By Those Who Have Crossed Over... Getting Messages?

I have been visited by 4 of my friends/family members who have passed on in the last month. The most recent is concerning, because I have this dreaded feeling. I have been visited by a friend's mother who has passed that is telling me to get in touch with him, or it may be too late. I have had him in my thoughts even though we haven't seen each other in about 4 years. He has been troubled ever since his mother died, even drinking problems and other self destructive behaviors. I am worried that I won't find him in time, and his mother and sister continue to visit me. They died within 6 months of each other.

I am at a loss for how to find him or what to do. He is special to me, and I don't want him to join his mother and sister yet!!!
MLUtt2008 MLUtt2008
26-30
May 7, 2012