Cuz I Didn't Want to Be Called a Tease

sometimes I do it when I don't want to. it's not like I'm being forced. I just can't stop it from snowballing from flirting to more and don't know when it's okay to say "stop" cuz this is no fun for me. it makes me angry with myself and I feel so stupid.

StormyLlewellyn StormyLlewellyn
41-45, F
5 Responses Feb 21, 2009

I totally understand exactly where you're coming from. You're okay with it to an extent but as soon as it's gone further than you'd like, it's too awkward to say no.

hahaha

okay but what if you're in the midst of foreplay, and suddenly his actions make me feel used and dirty? We're already naked, he's already aroused, but he's being a jerk in bed?

Some guys will just push and push until it feels like you have no choice. Just remember that it's your body, not theirs.

Wish I could help, but I've never had a boyfriend or sex. :/