I had a blind date once with a guy a few months before I met my boyfriend. The guy was shorter than me. 'Nuff said.
PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94
22-25, F
4 Responses Mar 14, 2015

The most serious think you could fault him for was being shorter then you? Like 'nuff said' is suppose to explain your prejudged attitude? How self righteous can you be? Maybe it didn't work because you came into it all wrong.

I was just joking when I made this post. Yes, it was true that he was shorter then me, and yes that is one of the reasons why we didn't work out, but it isn't the whole reason. He and I were polar opposites and had nothing in common. and honestly, he was rather dull and boring to me. But i'm not the only girl that would rather not date someone short then them. How many girls do you see with guys that are actually shorter then them? It's rare. Guys are usually seen with shorter girls, or girls who are about the same size. This guy was a lot shorter then me, and I just wasn't into it. and there is nothing wrong with that. I'm now with a guy who is taller then me, and it works out better that way. This post wasn't made to be mean or rude. It was for humor , because most people can relate to it. sorry if indirectly offended you.

Suppose you had written something like 'black' instead of 'short' how would that have been read any differently? Until you have been in a short guy's shoes, I don't think you have any idea how shorter guys feel. What if I had written essentially the same piece about a date I had and concluded with this variation: 'she had small **** - nuff said'? Depending on your breast size, you might not like it at all. Do you know any really nice girls who should be left out of the dating pool just because their breasts are too small?

I've had things like that said about me. Not about color or breast size, but about other things. I have seen guys say that they refuse to date brunettes. I'm a brunette. I have seen guys say that in order for them to date a girl, she needs to have a big butt. I don't have a big butt. But personally, I can care less about what they said, because it doesn't matter to me. I'll find a guy who doesn't care about those things instead. And I did. Also, about the color thing, not everyone is into interracial relationships. But saying something about someone's skin color is a little worse then saying something about their height. But that's not the point. The point I'm trying to make is that this post was nothing but mere humor. If I was being completely serious, I would not have said "nuff said" at the end of it. I would've had a more serious tone.

You may have thought it was humor, but like attempts to use race in humor, it didn't come across as anything other then ignorant prejudice on your part. You have to realize who you really are and what attitudes you are promoting here. Own it!

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If that was the worst part you have had a pretty good dating experience.

There was also the fact that we didn't click at all. He was dull and boring. and not funny. and he couldn't handle my personality lol.

Chemistry is important, just saying you have been very fortunate so far in your dating/love life.

Yeahh. I'm happy I was able to find a guy who was everything that the other guy wasn't. ^.^

did you do it by Braille?

Hey! Us short guys need love too.

Sure, but not from the likes of this one.

"Not from the likes of this one"? Really? Making me sound so bad for preferring not to date someone so much shorter then myself.