If I Only Knew

I was only 17 when I found out. I never thought it would happen to me but it did but how? I trusted him, I was faithful, we was suppose to get married. I was young, dumb and in love. So when he told me the bump I saw was just an pimple on his penis I believed him. Man was I wrong not long afterward I had this strange "Pimple" then another and another and man did they hurt! So I went to the doctor when the pain was finally to much, And i realized they just weren't going to go away. As I sat there waiting on the results from the doctor I just knew it was going to be bad he said You have herpes we can start you on medication today but since the first out break was so bad he was going to burn them off. And that's just what he has done. I went home the same day and told the man I was so in love with the news and told him I no longer wanted to be with him and how could he do this to me? He denied the entire thing until a month later  when his fling showed up pregnant and with the same thing.  He still denies having it until this  day  and so he's out there just spreading it to everyone he can. And now  I live  my life alone and afraid of any serious person besides no one would want someone with this.
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15 Responses Jul 3, 2007

that's not true, there will be a man that can see through that and love you for more than your body. remember ur worth more than that.

you can live with it hun

but i dunno about your ability to trust now


I hate that you're going threw something like that and your so young sweetie but just understand that only God can judge you

I'm sorry but you should not have had sex in the first place

Maybe i give it to u..in ur mouth,fatass

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Wow I feel the same way deceived and actually my story is identical.. Wats ur email? I'm down for private chat..

I felt the same way and ended up marrying the jerk. Let me tell you you are better off moving on. And for the record about 1 out of every 4 people have herpes, so you're NOT alone. My husband didn't have it when we started dating (he has it now, of course.) But he didn't care. He loved ME and that's all that mattered. We've been married for 2.5 years and have a beautiful son. This is a pain in the butt but it doesn't have to be a focal point in your life. And many people get past the initial outbreak and never really have another one. It will lessen more and more over time.

I ended up in a similar situation the man who gave it to me denied it and is now saying hes not stressed about it. He seems to just **** around with anyone and doesn't care at all about it not nice. There are some really f**kd people in this world. I don't know about even dating anymore im too ashamed to have to talk to someone about having h that i am just going to be alone.

I am sorry that he did that to you. He should have atleast have the guts to inform you of what he has. But the good thing is that the first outbreak is always the worst so you can expect them to be less painful in the next instances. And I think there are on the way of creating a law that will make this guy responsible.

I also was with a guy that was infected he didnt think it was important to tell me :( it should most definitely be a law that if your carrying this virus it is your responsibility to inform people your getting close to..I would never put someone I care about at risk of getting this without their consent

Cripes. I could have written that first part word for word, except that I was 22. I picked it up from my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years....he went on vacation and brought me back something to remember it by......

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It is now a felony in many states to not tell a person they have herpes before having sex. It is a physical assault.

As it should be. That would be a tough case to argue though.

i feel you, it makes you wonder how someone can do something that cruel to another human. i also have chosen to be alone, but i think its more of the combination of what happened to us. if it had been herpes alone it would be easier to cope with it.

TWENTY PERCENT of American adults are infected with genital herpes. Herpes is no reason for you to be alone. Try reading this: http://www.webmd.com/genital-herpes/guide/coping-diagnosis and then go from there.

wot a barsted!! i would take him to court, and let every 1 know on a billboard ad or something!!<br />
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u need my keyring, "Ï wasn't born a *****, men like u made me this way"!!!<br />
God there's alot of dogs out there!!<br />
From Feflower