So I am talking to a guy right now, and we haven't gone out yet, but i'm really nervous. I keep thinking this will never work, but then I tell myself yes it can. I feel like if I don't tell the person then I am misleading and trapping them. What are some experiences you all have had? When and how should you tell someone, because like it or not it can be a deal breaker and a shocker. That's why for me being friends is the best thing, because you get to know them and feel comfortable with them.