I Feel Like I Can Never Have Sex Again

Getting close to guys & feeling comfortable is a big challenge. I haven't been with a guy n over a year. My last boyfriend was understanding but after we broke up have found it hard to get close to some one new. It sucks cuz I get hit on & guys want to take me home but I get to self conscious & never go. & I really want to sex is great just like most people i really enjoy it but I don't want him to feel my stubble face or hairy body ie; stomach, chest, butt, ect.... Also I gained a bunch of weight then lost it but still have a mommy tummy & stretch marks. Not very hot when ur sex partner is jiggly/has loose skin & extra body hair. I went to a music show the other night dressed really cute. I had two different guys really hot to, wanna take me home & of cores I didn't go with either outta fear. Like everyone i have needs that should be satisfied but feel too ugly to go about it. I just hope some day I can learn to love my self & can accept my hirsutism & feel comfortable enough to have sex again.
fractalpterodactyl fractalpterodactyl
26-30, F
1 Response Dec 2, 2012

Jiggly and hairy isn't so bad. :)

Thank u I appreciate ur replay its nice of u to say but its pretty hard to take off my clothes & have sex when u feel ur body is so ugly & u don't deserve it like there's other girls out there way hotter why bother with me

Remember that what you think and what actually is are often completely different things. So, don't assume they're the same. That said, I totally understand the sort of feelings you're describing. *hugz*