Abandonment... From 2 Parents
Take away the biological mom then you have an abondoned kid. They feel like nothing's left. They wonder why their parents left them.....
Are you really blaming yourself when you feel abandoned and unable to trust anyone? I mean my mom left when i was 6 months old, then my dad left when i was 12 years old. my dad lies, doesnt keep his promises, rarely hangs out with his 1st kid, and he doesnt own up to anything he does. Mom came bak when i was 14 years old but ive seen her only 2 times and im now 17 years old. Sorry but feeling abandoned is bak. I dont blame anyone but the people who left, they left me. I didnt leave them. So is it reasonable to blame the biological parents? It's hard to be in a relationship when you have trust issues with people but hey i cant help it. My dad lies, He cheated on my mom, he doesnt own up to anything wrong he does, and he doesnt keep the promises he makes. So trusting people is hard. I feel like they will do the same. could i blame my dad for my trust issues or only myself?
Is it really my fault for feeling like i cant trust anyone and feeling abandoned, or is it my bio parents fault? I dont really wanna say its "their fault" but its true tho.
When mom left i kept asking myself "why she left, why she didnt want me", "if i was ever good enough for her" and a few more questions. hmmmmm.... At the age of 12 when my bio dad left, i knew exactly why he left but once again i felt abandoned, like no-one wants me let alone cares for me.