I've been married for over a decade (god that sounds long) LOL, and I have difficulties trusting my husband. I have valid reason for this, he has deceived me before. He assures me that I have nothing to worry about, however I can't help but suspect things. I usually tend to go with my instincts, what else can I do? I really do love him and he is a fabulous father. Wishing I could just let go and trust.