Trust & Depression Issues

I can't ever get a break. I've been screwed over enough to the point where when I wanna talk to someone and get close, it's so hard for me to fully trust them. In fact when I ask them questions about certain things that I'm upset or insecure about, I never believe them, even if they really are telling the truth. Sometimes I do end up believing them, but with most things I just keep bringing it back up because deep down I know I don't fully trust the guy. Which causes us to argue, nonstop. No one wants to be with someone who has major trust issues and is always upset about something. I don't know what to do, I'm so stuck. It's been about 10 months of me and this guy talking, and were still not together all because I can't seem to trust him. I do to an extent, and I really don't think he wants to be with anyone else, he just sometimes makes me feel that way because I'm real insecure. What should I do? I don't wanna go and talk to a therapist, which is why I'm here.
s00zie s00zie
1 Response Sep 8, 2012

I understand how you feel, I've been screwed over a lot as well so I stopped being a doormat.<br />
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Just give that guy a chance, if he's bad just ditch him.