I Don't Know Where It Came From??

       In my past relationships I have never had the jealousy issue I am having now.... I don't know if I am losing my confidence or what?? Whatever it is it's annoying and I want it to go away!!!!! Me and my bf have been together for a year and a half now and he is definitely the one!!! I love him and he loves me!! There is just one thing standing in the way of our hapiness! JEALOUSY! If we are out in public and he checks out another womens *** or something I feel so disrespected eventhough I know he loves me and only me and he is just a man and thats what they do.... I guess? Or like when he is on the computer I get upset when he is looking at pics of other women, not modeling or ****, but like other womens facebooks and tag?? Which I just found out about last night because his daughter told me he was looking at pitures of other women... So I asked him what he was doing and he exited out before I could see myself! He says it's some website called tag and he doen't know what kind of website it is eventhough he has been a member for two years. Even when he is watching the spanish channel (OMG I sound rediculous I know!) we can't even understand what they are saying... but it's like some kind of game show with good looking, fake boobed women??  I get furious!!! I don't get mad about like actresses, singers, **** or anything like that so I don't understand why i get upset about all these small things! I have a fear it is going to ruin our relationship! He thinks I don't trust him, but I do! I think? I'm pretty sure anyway eventhough he has cheated on all of his ex-wives... I don't know what to do, but I can't keep doing this to us and I have no idea how to change!

kaylibaby14 kaylibaby14
18-21, F
2 Responses Feb 24, 2010

If he has cheated on all his ex wives that would be a huge red flag for me. Then again I never forgive people lol.

I wouldn't trust anyone if they were keeping secrets from me. I think he just has to be completely honest with you and you should tell him what's bothering you calmly. As long as he gives you straight answers and doesn't get defensive, it's probably nothing to worry about. If the problem does escalate further and something does happen, at least you can say that you reacted reasonably. Maybe he's not right for you if he doesn't respect boundaries with other women.