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Sharing My Husband


Frist of all we’re 2 couples between 28 & 30 and my best girlfriend since our teens both share our husbands.

It was a relationship that grew over time and I think we all knew that sooner or later it would evolve to where it is today. Back while we were all single we used to kiss each other’s b/fs on special occasions like birthdays, Christmas, new year, etc. flirty, lingering kisses with a bit of tongue. Once at an outdoors drive-in movie we switched guys for a while and did some heavy necking but that was about it.

One evening after we were married a couple of years the 4 of us were sitting around on the rug playing a sexy game (fully clothed) with 2 dice, each one said to do something to your partner. One was different types of kissing and the other touching different body parts. For the first while we used our own spouses and then someone suggested we switch so my hubby sat next to my friend and hers next to me.

The guys rolled first and as the dice indicated my husband slow kiss my g/f twice and feel one of her breasts. During the first kiss he gave her some tongue and the second kiss she gave him tongue…what a turn on for me! When her husband rolled the dice he had to french kiss me and feel between my legs. After a few more rolls of the dice and watching each other with the other’s spouses we were really, really hot. For some time we had talked about ******* each other’s partners and this was the perfect time – so we did and have been for the past 2 years.

While playing the game we’d French kissed and groped each other pretty well everywhere and full blown sex was the only thing left. We talked about the "should we really" and "I will if you want to and you will" and decided to go for it. I’d always wanted to watch my g/f suck my husband’s **** and we often fantasized about the other husband (his best guy friend) ******* me.

After a brief discussion as to go to separate rooms or do 4 in the same room the voyeur in us choose the same room. We all found it INCREDIBLE to watch your spouse do oral sex and then **** your best friend and we’ve continued doing it for the last 2 years.

Now the 4 of us **** in the same room or the same bed once a month,my husband with my g/f and her husband with me. Once a month we share our husbands privately but not always on the same evening. Sometime my husband goes over there for the night and screws my g/f which entitles her husband to come over and use me on a night of his choice. 

blacklingerie0 blacklingerie0 26-30, F 88 Responses Sep 21, 2010

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Help me bust?

Mmm if you were here right now I'd be happy to.
Would you like to start with my soft hands?

Love to be in your circle. Please add me, love your style

Thanks for the reply. I prefer ladies I my circle.

I also enjoy ladies FMF. Is my favorite.

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What an awesome story and opportunity. I'd love to have this opportunity sometime. Glad it worked out for all of you. Enjoy!

Thanks you for your comments.
Do you have a lady in your life you'd like to share?

I do. But I think the sharing is one way.....LOL

would like a ********* with U 2

Awesome, please add me

As soon as you get a sex change - lol.
Please reply with authenticity, support, and respect

As soon as you get a sex change lol.

Couple here too. Wife is bi and we love to play and share with others.

Where was this freedom and attitude when my wife and I were your age? Congrats to all of you.

Dream scenario!

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Very erotic, kinda like wife n I with our friends, only not as far;) take look at some of my stories

Cool arrangement !!

Thanks for sharing that great story. I suspect that such sharing between good friends is much more common than suspected!

Hey nice story...loved reading it...Yes I know how much fun it is to share and get shared....

Wow that is an open relationship. Sounds interesting.please add me as a friend.

Hello, love the story sounds like you know how to have fun for all. Love an add to your friends and maybe a chat as i think we have some in common

Great story, it is refreshing to read about people sharing their spouses and understanding that eating Filet Mignon every day although very good trying something else will not kill you and will make you appreciate the Filet more
can you add me

Hey lovely - your stories are incredible as I remember. Would love to chat and catch up with the two of you. -sarah

I have read several of your stories and been incredibly turned on. My husband is 27, the best father and an amazing husband and I want to give him the gift of sleeping with other women. I know he has fantasized about it for a very long time and I don't think it is my right to hold him back from enjoying his one and only life. Plus it will be nice to watch him pleasure another woman, as he is very good in bed. He has a very active libido, while mine has fallen off the waste side since I had my daughter.

Being VERY new to all of this, we are talking less than 2 weeks, where do I even begin. I have a few (4) rules that he needs to follow, but other than that I really don't know how to move forward. Any suggestion would be great.



Perhaps if you told me your 4 rules I'd be better able to give you my opinion. Thanks for commenting on my story and congrats on your agreeing to share your husband. Watching him **** another woman may very well restore you libido!!

If I become interested in indulging, I have to have more sex with my husband than all other combined. If it ever gets emotional, all ties are broken. Prior approval by me. (I'm a big believer in sharing energy) and complete openness about everything.

And no one is allowed to *** on my face other than my husband. His rule of course.

Well if you and your husband have agreed to the 4 rules the only outstanding issue is to have the new participants be aware and agree to the same.

With us it took a consoderable amount of talking by both couple and whether we would have same room sex or private. Our first time was same room and the second time was private. We now do 1 of each a month.

It sounds like your both ready so make it happen. Do you want to watch him with other women? Will he be watching you with other men? For us there is no greater turn on the "watcing" and "being watched"!


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wow thats hot ! ant MFM 3 somes ? hmmmmmmmm

Occasionally among the 4 of us. Any yourself hhmm?

i have had the pleasure of 3 MFM 3smomes. still waiting for a FMF for me . a bucket list dream. in my experience. most women get jealous watching another girl **** their bf ! too emotional ! maybe someday !

Fun times indeed!

Ahhh I can't even get a message through...:(

Too hot. That would be so fun. My wife will not entertain the idea and thinks I am strange for even bringing it up. I guess I will never have the opportunity to enjoy an evening like that, lucky you.

Any rules?

Not realy - we usually share twice a month - once privately in each other's homes and once in the same room or same bed. No secrets.

I see we're both Canadian. We live in MB.

You say about once a month your husband goes over and ***** your girlfriend, which give her husband which entitles her husband to come over and **** you on the night of his choice. Where does the husband whose wife is getting **** go and what does he do on those nights? If it were me, I would want to be in the guest room visualizing (and maybe hearing) as another man ***** my wife in our marital bed.

Pleasure. I have never been to MB but will be spending a while in Portage this summer lol. I've heard there isn't much there.

As for rules I've always been curious how it would all work. Sounds like you are pretty comfortable. My head goes towards logistics like condoms or kissing or *** etc

Nothing? Lol

Compared to New York there isn't much in Portage.
Compared to some small towns it's like New York!! LOL

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that was a real sportsman spirit..

I hope you succeed - the experience is unbelievable!
Thanks for writing.

I'd like to share my husband, I'm working on opening up to the idea...I liked your story, it sounds like how I imagine myself and husband doing it :)

WOW what A super COOL set up U have created 4 U'rselves , It sounds like U all have A very special closeness that really works well 4 U all & thats GREAT !! Please add me Beautiful LOVE 2 see all U'r pics , THANKS !!

Hi WT - it's mostly switching but on special occasions like birthdays we've done 3 on 1.
How about you?

Thanks ES I'm glad it had that effect on you. Kisses to you too!

OMG your story got me so hot... even my breathing became difficult I kid you not... Thanks for "sharing"... hehe


Great Story. I need the instructions so my wife and I can play. Thanks for sharing