...And You Can, Too.

Is it easy, letting go of pain and anger and hurt?  No, not at all.  But it can be done, and the feeling is liberating beyond any words I have.

Try it sometime...really!

fallentower fallentower
41-45, M
5 Responses Feb 17, 2009

For any argument to end, someone has to be seen as the loser. I really don't mind at all. I say my piece and move on. It helps that there are only a few things I feel are black and white in terms of right and wrong.

I learned it from Dr. Phil!

Sometimes the need to be right makes everything wrong. Everyone should learn to pause and ask themselves that question, lilt. It's more effective than counting.

Absolutely, Lilt. I can live with being wrong, but I can't live with any more unhappiness in my life.

Very good.<br><br />
I say, do you want to be happy or do you want to be "right?"<br><br />
I choose happiness.<br><br />
And I wish more people would ask themselves that question.