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My Dirty Little Secret

I haven't told anyone I know that I have had lesbian fantasies. I am heterosexual and I have no doubt that I am. Regardless, I have thought about being with a girl. I think it would be hot and fun. I don't know if it's that I am attracted to women, or that I just love sex, with anyone, man or woman. I don't see myself as lesbian or bisexual, just a sex addict I guess. But I am so curious about being with another girl. I have been thinking about it fir the last year or so, and I am getting more tempted to try it. But I don't even know who I would with. I don't want to hurt anyone, I feel like it wouldn't be fair to the girl if she's lesbian that I'm just, for lacj of better words, experimenting with her. I don't know... those are just some of my random thoughts and feelings on the subject.
kateegirl kateegirl 18-21, F 10 Responses May 22, 2012

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I read something recently where this woman was saying she was heteroromantic but homoerotic, meaning she wanted to be in a romantic marriage with a man, to be his wife and sweetheart and best friend, kiss, hold hands, flirt, all that, but never have sex with him. And meanwhile, she wanted to have sex with women, and wanted her future husband to be OK with it. So there are all kinds of different people with all kinds of different wishes.

I think maybe that describes my wife. I'm curious to know what you think of our story

I am heterosexual as well and i had sex with a girl few years ago...since then i am always attracted to women and sometimes i am not satisfied with my husband because of that.Becareful ! Your personality is in risk and if you try it you it ! LIKE I DID ! And then you slowly slowly refuse the d**k and start thinking that only a woman can make you have a ln ******

Hey I'm a lesbian my self but I advise u if u meet a female u wanna hv sex with jst tl her u curious never pretend b upfront all the luck mwah..

Me too. I had a one night fling with another girl a few years back and it was amazing. It was curiosity more than anything. What it would feel like kissing softer lips, how it would feel to have a woman get off on my breasts knowing that she would know what felt amazing. Other play :D. I tried another relationship but the other woman kinda got really clingy which really put me off. I like the thought of being able to have fun with woman but I don't think I'd want a relationship..

I am exactly the same...Im not a lesbian...I know Im straight....Im just curious

You're fortunate that you are at a good age to experiment and there seem to be a lot of other curious women. Just be honest. Good luck.

You're curious, you're human. That's all. My advice to you is, explore that side of your sexuality. You never know who might be the one that will be there and willing. If you are honest and upfront, I sincerely doubt that you'll hurt someone.<br />
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Rest easy, knowing that you are not alone, that there are others just like you.<br />
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Take care, and God Bless.

I think your feelings are quite normal<br />
We all have our fantasies.It is probably impossible to find someone completely gay or straight<br />
If you chose to experiment just tell the girl that you are struggling with your sexuality and that you do not wish to hurt or confuse her<br />
Long as you are honest,you have nothing to worry about<br />
Stay safe<br />
God Bless

Thanks so much

You have a good smile so always remain smiling and stay away from leaches as you are going to rock soon in life.

What you love suits you. what you want is true love. so keep your search on

Will do:)