My Attraction To Female Hair
F or me, things started when I was in my teenage years. I was a jock, played a lot of BB, and hung w/ a grp of guys who didn't have time for girls (we were 15 yrs old). My hormones began whirling at top speed when a young girl (2 years younger) passed by w/ her gf, and we made eye contact. Repeated visits indicated she liked my attn -- she knew I liked hers. Fast Forward to a relationship that lasted 6 years during a very formative period of my life.
She was pretty, nothing too spectacular, but we were both looking for our first experiences. In short order, she was aware of my attraction to her hair. She had dark brown hair a bit passed her shoulders. It was very think and full. She had bangs in front, but they were gone after 6 months. What wasn't gone was a growing awareness of my fascination with her hair. She liked when I touched it gently. She responded by wearing it in different styles and was always tuned into my responses to her new looks.
After the relationship developed (abt 1 year latter), and there was a trust and strong attraction started, we moved into the beginnings of what become an increasingly varied and somewhat unique sexual relationship. Being pretty young, we seemed to skirt around the whole intercourse thing, but everything short of that was on the table (so to speak).
She knew the powerful stimulant for me was her hair, the style she used , the scent (shampoo and/or hair spray). Turns out I was most attracted to her hair when it was in an updo style -- looking very sophisticated -- at least from my perspective.
The sexual encounters we had regularly almost always revolved around her hair, fantasy play scenes, requests for me to take it down for her at the end of a night. For some reason, the smell of hairspray among the most potent turn-ons for me...a and she indulged me in unbelievable ways ... ways that on retrospect seemed very mature for kids the age we were. I would spend long periods with my face buried in her hair -- it was so soothing. A bomb could have gone off nearby, and I doubt it would bother me.
Our relationship lasted 6 years, and cooled after we both left for college. We had occasional contacts during school, but moved onto others. We still hear from each other on birthdays. We're both married with families.
My fascination with women's hair has continued over a succession of girlfriends, several interested and amused by my fetish, all willing to indulge to a point. That's even true with my partner now. However, there has never been anything like those early years, and I doubt there will be. It bums me out...because my attraction has not diminished -- even after all these years.
I have some ideas about the early "roots" of my interest/fetish, but those are beyond the scope of this initial writing.
Can anyone relate????