I Have Lost Me In My Marriage

I recently found out my husband of 7 years has been having online affairs. In my panic to figure out what to do I realized that so much of who I am now is wrapped up in my marriage. I have lost so much of myself and given over almost my entire identity to him and my two kids. I am feeling this overwhelming urge to find myself again. I have been searching for long lost friends, re-initiated old memberships I have let go, dusted off old clothing, opened new email accounts, twitter accounts, etc... I feel like I am a bit manic right now, but I assume this is just a stage of the healing process and I should run with it? How have others dealt with issues like this?
itsformethistime itsformethistime
36-40
Sep 22, 2012