I Haveit And Dont Know How To Over Come

 have alwyas had low selfestem  becuz i never har the oh your pretty or i love you. let alone
i never felt that i belong or need as much as i need other people.
and i just dont know what to do i belive
that iam ugly and no one needs me like im wrothless
i haven even thought of killing my slef over  things like this
i just hurts

unspoken13 unspoken13
1 Response Jul 17, 2010

i think everyone thinks these things once in a while, some more often than others. When i find myself not liking who i am, i try to remember that it's not the end of the world if i don't live up to people's expectations; including my own. i just have to keep on going, keep doing what i do, try living a life with some sort of meaning.<br />
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Imagine a guy who's an amazing painter, but trying hard to be a boxer. He'll keep judging himself on his boxing, focusing only it, rather than finding joy from painting.<br />
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i think we compare ourselves to other people that SEEM happy, and we try to be like them. It rarely works, because everyone's life is just a little bit different.<br />
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i hope you can find how to feel... OK. : ) <br />
Nothing wrong with feeling OK. You don't have to feel great, just OK. You don't have to feel bad, just OK.<br />
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Good luck.