I have never been in a relationship with anyone. Makes me feel lame sometimes but right now I am confused. Yes, there have been people that I like and people who like me, but I never feel those butterflies or that click. I don't mean to be self-righteous or smug, but I have not met someone that I feel is worth being with. I have talked to guys and flirted, but when I get to know them something is always off and I feel uncomfortable. Although, I do blame myself because I am a hopeless romantic and I also believe that if you are in a relationship it is because there is a deep connection that you both feel. I just want someone to share everything with and for him to feel the same way. I don't want it to be a mere physical attraction, but something more profound. If it is an infatuation, it should be and infatuation with all of me. Maybe I want too much? I don't know.
Any suggestions???
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7 Responses Aug 22, 2014

You'll find someone, just matter of time.

Hang in there. You expect exactly what you deserve, and it will come when the time is right. Everything happened to me very late, but when it did happen, it happened in a big way. I would recommend just continuing to define yourself and what you want, and be open when love arrives (it may not be 'wrapped' the way you would expect, or be waiting in the place you think it should, but it will come. And just remember, you may not have found your special someone yet because he's not ready- not because you aren't.

No!! haha. damn, you think just like me. I've only had a couple or relationships and it is because there was something more you know? Hence my no cheating story ;) lol. But I like that way you think! Don't feel lame. You are bound to find something good, although it is getting more difficult let me tell you. BTW, friends? I liked your stories. I think you and I could have a good chat be it relationships or anything else =]

In a way i feel you cause like i haven't had that quemistry with any other woman. And i have meet a couple of beautifull woman but that quemistry is just not there.

Since me and my girlfriend broke up and that was like 3 years ago.

It really does but hat can we do, Like we can force ourselfs to have that quemistry. Just wait on the person that will give pourpuse to out emotions one day.

I feel exactly the way you do! I'm already 24 and I've dated 4-5 guys seriously...but I've never felt anything deeper than superficial attraction and maybe affection. I'm a hopeless romantic too...and I honestly believe that I won't feel that deep love until I meet the man I'm going to marry. I'm not sure that I could truly fall in love more than once. You should feel lucky that you are this way...now you know that you're going to find an awesome relationship and marry the man of your dreams. Too many women settle because they're not sure what they want or how they should feel...I think it's good that you're so sure of what you want. I don't think you want too much.

U want exactly what you should want. Be picky, and when you find the right guy, you will know.
take it from another hopeless romantic

I don't think you want too much but that way your youth passes and you may be single for a long time.
I suggest that you try relationships, you'll find your soulmate some day.