Sure Is Quiet Around Here

The only reason I can think of is that people THINK they are in love but they're not, mainly because the relationship never stands the test of time. They think they fall out of love when in relaity they were never in love at all.

You see this over at the Sexless Marriage Experience. So many sad stories of people who thought they were in love only to have it crash and burn and they end up trying to get through the days in a sexless marriage without any intimacy at all.

I think there are ways to prevent this happening. One thing is to be independent and have good self esteem. Never fully give yourself to someone unless you have been married for a long time and know them well. As soon as you give yourself fully you make yourself vulerable to being hurt by the whims of others who may not have your best interests in mind.

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Feb 23, 2009