In Love = In Lust?

Think about it - are you really missing much if it's all about sex with people anyway? When a couple first gets together, what are they doing most of the time? Is that love?

A lot of the time "relationships" like that crash and burn, just a few of them last. How I could never figure out. I've never had a relationship last longer than five months. The guys who approach me only want sex, which is weird because I'm not a particulary sexy person, I don't dress provocatively or anything like that. I'm pretty good at hiding most of the time, the rest of the time I"m ignored. I guess becuase I'm a black woman that doesn't have that exotic mixed look going on so no decent guys ever talk to me. So don't feel bad because it can always be worse.

Chrisanna Chrisanna
36-40, F
3 Responses Mar 16, 2009

How many relationships have you been in?

its more to it I think...if we just craved the instant gratifications I would be sitting at home ************ 24/7 and not bothering about going on dates or lust anyone, so...well I see yuor point though

You're right. it can always be worse!<br />
i think maybe you are looking too hard. maybe you need to let someone find you.<br />
do day to day activities where you can meet new people if you don't already.<br />
i believe that there is someone out there for everyone. it just takes a little bit of time an patience.<br />
i bet you are an extremely attractive woman! don't put yourself down. think positive!