Will I Always Be Single

I am 33 almost 34 and still have never had a boyfriend I really am starting to think their is no one for me or that i am just not good enough to have one. Maybe I juast am not worthy.
thenewestdaughter thenewestdaughter
36-40, F
13 Responses May 9, 2012

I know how you feel. I will be 34 in August and never had a boyfriend either. I have dated, but it never lead to anything. I was close to 23 when I when out on my first date. The guy was really nice but he stopped seeing me for whatever reason. 6 months to a year later, I learned he got married. I felt like a reject. It seems like most guys I meet are either gay, married or just not plain interested. Hang there, I am in the same boat.

before finding a boyfriend find a friend first. most of the time jumping into relations may not be wise. i know people are desperate but it could be worse, think about people getting divorced and having kids. again may be u are looking outside the box, may be there is someone just around you and you are blind sighted,remember there is someone for everybody does mean that if u r single some one is also

never stop being yourself... we all have at least one 'special someone' out there for us <3

When the one shows up you will know why it wasn't any one else. You are worthy and you are deserving, the trick is to make sure they are of you :0) hugs

I didn't get married until I was thirty.

Maybe it is time for you to love yourself!

you are right

Hey please don't think your the only one I'm 31 never had a boyfriend yes you do deserve to meet someone never give up it nice to know I'm not alone

Of course you are "good enough". You just need to meet the right person!

OK do not give up hope. I do know your feeling, I am single until last year I had decided I did not need a man of any sort in my life or so I thought. The year before I found myself with a crush on a friend of the family he is 18 years older than me with a wife and two near enough grown up kids and a marriage which is not really doing very well. We got chatting one day well one thing lead to another and we both ended up at the coast walking along the beach together. Well he confessed to having thought about me at work and I confessed my feelings he was flattered then said well keep what we do between ourselves and its all fine if you are happy so am I. OK mum and dad consider it a platonic friendship but he and I both know what has occured and how far we are willing for it to go. I won't let it go too far and he knows that but what we have is fine it fills a hole in our lives and is great. I tell you all this to let you see that sometimes if you stop looking for what you feel you want and look at things in a different way you can have something that yes is not perfect but still fullfills a need. Don't get me wrong what we have is not easy I can not tell friends and family exactly what happens and I can never phone or text him and we do not see each other on big celebrations because we have to be with our families but when we are together its fantastic. Good luck I am sure all will fall into place for you.

Here I am lol, I'm sorry but keep your hopes high and I agree with eonyandivoryy maybe your not looking in the rite place. I'm single and sometimes I think the same but then again m really young lol

Maybe you havent been looking in the right places?<br />
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Goodluck with it x

Nothing weird but I am 19 male. My name is Aakash Trivedi. I am from California. I am pretty sure that you are a sweet, intelligent, and beautiful woman and I would love to maybe give you my number? We can just talk and chat about anything. If you ever feel bored or lonely? Again, nothing weird hahahaha. 1 408 772 8919. Text or call maybe? Just tell me who you are haha

Please never give up hope. Mr. Right is out there someplace. I was almost 39 before I meet my now wife. We have been married now 22 years. She was the shaporne. The girl I had been writting, she would not go out with me. My now wife was her girl friend. She lost out.<br />
Don't Ever give up. We met because of an insurance error. There is Mr. Right out there for you. If I can fnd someone, you can do to it too.<br />
Good luck to you.

Of course you are worthy