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Empty Bliss

I have never had an one night stand. I have been approach several times over the years to have one. I have always declined. To me I have never had sex with someone unless, I had some type of emotional feeling or I was in love with that person. Yes, it has been some time since I had sex. But to wake up with a stranger or he has already left, is not my thing. It is true that you have to have some type of physically attraction to one another but that isn't all. To be able to connect with that person on another level. To have taking the time to really get to know each other emotionally, physically, mentally, spiritually. That way when you do have sex or make love the connection that you both will share is the most meaningful, amazing, loving feeling in the world. This is the type of bonding experience I desire and want not empty bliss.
enchantedebonybutterfly enchantedebonybutterfly 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 18, 2012

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Yes, one night stands are defiantly not for you.... You should really find a steady bf

So true in every way.

Ahh the difference of sex and making love unveiled...

yes, very true. thanks for your comment

In my opinion one night stands are not a good idea. Let me tell my story. I had sex for the first time with a prostitute. It was weird because I did not feel I had done something special. She was looking at me as another customer and like you said is there is no deeper emotion it is not worth it.

i am so sorry to hear your story. i just do not want my sex experiences to be meaningless. hugs

i do understand how you feel. i need more than an one night stand.

thanks for your comment