I Am Not Beautiful But I Am Cute.

I have a crooked nose, pale skin, I am too skinny and have a muscly legs. I have a lot of bad sides.
Throughout the years I was thinking that I am ugly never liked a thing about my look. When people commented something good about the way I look I saw the other things. I have blue eyes, but they are not seeing good, I have black and straight hair, but I like ginger hair better.... 

Now, after years of work, I see the good stuff too and I know that I can show them and feel good. I know I am not BEAUTIFUL, but I also know that I am CUTE, just CUTE is enough to feel good.

KathyN89 KathyN89
22-25, F
3 Responses Dec 29, 2011

It's always good to get confidence, right? I'm glad it worked out for you.

Oh to be skinny again! But remember, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I wear glasses also and to some people I may wear frumpy skirts and dresses but that is the way I want to be. I've never thought of myself as ugly, just made the best of what I've got. It got me a good husband though sadly he's no longer alive. Some of those who consider themselves as 'beautiful' don't last five minutes in the marriage game.

Thanks for your comment.
People who find someone who loves their individuality and character are usually more happy in family life then those who just go for the looks (either way around)...
I am sorry for your loss. If you ever want to talk, I'm here.

That is so sweet. However it will be twenty two years in May since I lost him, my daughter Helen was only three when he died so has very vague memories of him. He lives on in my granddaughter who is named after him, Caroline. My husband was called Karol and was of Polish parentage. He had an aggressive tumour and nothing could be done. But I have plenty of photos and memories to pass on to her.

Photos and memories are very important. I don't really remember my grand parents from father's side, I was 3 and 5 when they died. They were very old too. The only thing I remember is that grandma tried talking to me in Idish when I studied Hebrew,,, The language seemed very strange as I never heard anything like it not outside nor even on TV.

Cute is other kind of beautiful, too ;)