I Basically Have No Friends

I say basically because there was a time when I had none at all, now I at least am friends with my boss, but unfortunately we won't be working together for much longer because of our store being bought out and us being sent to other places, and we've never hung out outside of work. This year I actually contacted an old friend from years ago and hung out with her a couple times, we've emailed a bit but that's it. I also have an online pen pal, but that's it. I have no one to hang out with, not even any siblings. I can't go to bars or clubs. I am so lonely. How in the hell am I ever going to meet someone who I could have as a potential romantic partner? I'm screwed. I did use to have friends but then I started high school and I didn't know hardly anyone there and the few people I did know, I did not have any classes with. I'm really shy but not as shy as I used to be. I want friends but have such a hard time making them because everyone else is in a group. Having no friends is the worst.

Spice99857 Spice99857
22-25, F
5 Responses Dec 1, 2007

Hello I know how you feel I'm the same way just need someone to hangout with and mainly talk to. You would think me being an older person I would have friend but NOT donot know why I think I am a good person. I dont drink, I would give you the shirt off my back If you need it. But even in school I had no friends. I am married to a wonderful man who is good to me and I have 2 children and 2 grand children but somehow this is not enough. My children only have the time for me if they need or want something. I have had respritory failure 2 times and as god as my witness my only children was a noshow for me at the hospital, not even careing if I was okay or not. SAD I NOW BUT VERY TRUE. any way thank for listen to my story, maybe we'll talk again soon

and also be more intrested who has been your friend and in your boyfriend

You seem like a very nice girl, you should have no trouble make friends, just take care of the people you befriend.

yay! good for u and good luck. <br />
maybe ur boy friend can introduce u to new people.

I now have a boyfriend! I'm happy! but, still not completely satisfied, because i haven't made any other friends. at least i'm not lonely any more.