Need Ep Friends

         Hello to all EP members. I really need some friends on this site. It’s sad to say I have not found any friends here. I have fans in my list but I don’t add everybody into my circle. As I’m interested in two-way communication from people, I have tried not to add people who have 100 and more friends. Maybe I’m wrong, but I think these people don’t have time and wish to keep in touch with all people in their circle.

          I tried to make a few comments and answer questions if I had some thoughts to share with people but… I still have no friends.  

           So I’ll try “advertise” Carrie19 and to tell some more facts about myself in case people have the same interests as I have.

           I have to admit, I took nick Carrie19 not being American. English isn’t my native language but I know English well enough. I have lots in common with Carrie Bradshaw and she is one of my favourite characters. I’m observer of the life and I may be a good friend and listener.  

           If you are interested in Literature, History or Art, or you want to explore traditions of other countries, or you had unhappy relationship or you are crazy about shopping or you feel lonely (or other things that have not come to my mind at the moment) we may become good friends.

          I won’t accept you as a friend if you want to talk about your sexual fantasies. I don’t need people who add everybody to their circle and they never communicate to them.

         I do really hope I’ll find real friends here!

         

Carrie19 Carrie19
31-35, F
11 Responses Mar 2, 2010

Hi I am new on here and I dont' have no friends at all,So am going to try to get some EP friends:)

Thanks for comment, Literaturegirl. I’m happy when people are interested in me and add me to their circle but I don’t add everybody. I always check people’s profile and when I can see we have much in common I add them. <br />
From my opinion if people add me to their circle they are going to communicate with me. There were a few people in my circle who I had never heard from and I deleted them. When people commented my stories or send a few e-mails to me I still keep them in my circle. <br />
I could find really good friends here and they were with me in good and bad times and I’m grateful to them.

Thanks for comments. Coffindancer, I used to be very upset when people added me just to make their circle wider. So I’m very picky who I add into my circle. I try to keep in touch with my friends and give them all my support.<br />
LittleLena, I’m quite shy myself and it’s hard for me to make the first step and add somebody into my circle. I know that it depends of person’s features of character how he or she treats their friends and it doesn’t usually depend of quantity of friends.

True friends sincere they are rare.. precious like diamonds.. but they are there .. and some people say true friends Gift of God .. and some say they born you cannot make them.. but i wish you best. of luck.. <br />
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you will find the best one.<br />
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Regards

Hey Carrie<br />
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I am new to this site. I am looking for a friend to talk to. I am married and he spends most of his time with his friends. I go to school full time for nursing and only have odd times to leave messages like this. I don't know where you live in the world but I am in the US. I love to shop and would be happy to talk to you about anything.

What an ad! <br />
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I think I'm interested in an application, can i get one of those? =)<br />
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and Thanks for your answer on my question, that's how I stumbled into your town. Sometimes I just click on whoever's comment I liked and then see their stories and go from there. You need more stories though!<br />
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I want to thank everybody for their comments. Thanks for advice, Mzdivine. I do really hope I’ll make friends here. I’m trying to be extra careful. When you have on-line friends, you may choose people to communicate with. Moreover it’s a great opportunity to find friends from different parts of world. <br />
Onceandfutureglow, you are right. The only way to advertise yourself is to write stories and comment people’s stories. I feel myself like sponge that absorbs different experiences but maybe it’s time to share certain parts with my life with people. Maybe I’m too closed and I should tell more about myself. I would be glad to communicate with you in future. <br />
Tekkamaki, Thanks a lot for your kind comments and gestures. I do really like your cute pets and you sound a good person for me. <br />
Wackypunk, I think we became EP members to find friends here and I hope you’ll find them!

me neither. i joined EP on mobile and its my 3rd visit.hehehe

I tried to keep it down to 30 once. But being here for almost three years, I ended up meeting more than 30. And I don't just add anyone either. I chat for a while with each member before hand and spend hours, even days trying to keep up to date with everyone. <br />
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When I first started out, it took me over three months of interaction to really find the right crowd, a few good friends, someone to really connect with. And I was on a lot too. <br />
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Well...Hello. My name is Tekkamaki. It's nice to meet you. I stopped by your profile. I too hate cruelty to animals. And even though I thought I wasn't a shopoholic for the longest time...I run through the aisles with glee these days. I don't even wear all of them but I have this thing for dresses and shoes...just how pretty they look hung up or on the shoe rack. The colors and all. Could be a problem, ha ha!

Hi Carrie. :)<br />
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A little advice?<br />
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You have to comment a lot. Get to know us. Lots of people are not here for two way communication. But lots are. I have over a hundred friends, but I am always interested in making a new friend. As you say - anyone who is ready to communicate instead of just build a big circle.<br />
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Share a lot of stories, so we can get to know you. <br />
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You wouldn't go into a room of people and say you needed a friend. It's the same here. People want to know who you are, how you communicate, what your sense of humor is like. What makes you tick. Let people know that, and you'll have friends.<br />
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I spent the first year here with only a couple of friends, and wondered often at how people would speak of the people here - how EP changed their lives, how they loved people here. But now that I have opened myself up to it, I can honestly say that I would not be the same person without this site. I love my circle, and know that I have many true and good friends here. <br />
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And by the way, I'm interested in the things you speak of in your post. Add me if you like! I promise to write you back. :)

Hello, Carrie!...I hope you find friends that suit you!<br />
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E.P. is a great sight!....There should be someone for you!<br />
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just.......................................BE CAREFUL!