My Post- I Have No Friends

I still try to figure that out. I have no friends. How did that happen?  I am 28 yrs old. I am fun to be around. I am caring, sweet, nice, generous (almost to a fault). But yet I have no friends. My family lives hundreds of miles away and I sit at home night after night wondering why I have no friends and why my life is this way? Sometimes I just wish I could go back a few years ago and change the direction my life was heading.

I feel such a strong need to be accepted by people that I become obessed about it almost. I hate it. Meanwhile all the friendship I have had has turned out terrible.

Why me? I just don't understand why me?
heavensbbw heavensbbw
26-30, F
2 Responses Nov 9, 2010

I don't have any real friends either. I consider myself a nice person too, although I can come off as aloof sometimes since I can be quiet at times.<br />
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Anyway you feel like you're alone but you're not. Join a health club, volunteer, find something that fits your interests that gets you around people. At most hopefully you can find a group of people you like to spend time with and have a common interest with.

I also don't have friends, i m 32.<br />
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Look friend, what you can do is use your valuable time in some useful things like further education/learning for your better career, for your health (in exercises & yoga) and in some good hobbies.<br />
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Prepare yourself for your life ahead as i m confirmed you are soon to get very good life escort(better half) some where waiting for you, so go get married.<br />
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Also you can opt to go for clubs, hangouts and tourist places for a change and try to mix up with people, not all persons are same.<br />
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Best of luck.