My Post- I Have No Friends

I still try to figure that out. I have no friends. How did that happen?  I am 28 yrs old. I am fun to be around. I am caring, sweet, nice, generous (almost to a fault). But yet I have no friends. My family lives hundreds of miles away and I sit at home night after night wondering why I have no friends and why my life is this way? Sometimes I just wish I could go back a few years ago and change the direction my life was heading.

I feel such a strong need to be accepted by people that I become obessed about it almost. I hate it. Meanwhile all the friendship I have had has turned out terrible.

Why me? I just don't understand why me?
heavensbbw heavensbbw 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2010

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I don't have any real friends either. I consider myself a nice person too, although I can come off as aloof sometimes since I can be quiet at times.

Anyway you feel like you're alone but you're not. Join a health club, volunteer, find something that fits your interests that gets you around people. At most hopefully you can find a group of people you like to spend time with and have a common interest with.

I also don't have friends, i m 32.

Look friend, what you can do is use your valuable time in some useful things like further education/learning for your better career, for your health (in exercises & yoga) and in some good hobbies.

Prepare yourself for your life ahead as i m confirmed you are soon to get very good life escort(better half) some where waiting for you, so go get married.

Also you can opt to go for clubs, hangouts and tourist places for a change and try to mix up with people, not all persons are same.

Best of luck.