I'm 24 Year Old And Still Confused,goalless,weak,don't Know What To Do With Myself.I'm 24 year old,lost my job 1.6yrs ago,still don't know what to do with my future.I'm still confused,goalless,disinterested in life,
not confident,weak,dull, lazy,stupid ,irrational,sarcastic,hypocritical,negative speaking,always looking for someone to help me,
.I JUST DON'T KNOW WHERE I WANNA GO.MY MIND IS ABSOLUTELY BLANK!!!
PLEASE HELP ME OUT OF THIS CONFUSION.
Thank you to all of you who shared your opinion/story about your life.Since the day I posted this story (its about two years ago)I have discovered that I NEVER understood LIFE in the right perspective.I was struggling because all the time I REALLY DIDN'T CARE ENOUGH for myself/life and as Napoleon Hill already said:
"If you do not conquer self, you will be conquered by self."
That means either YOU control your MIND or MIND controls YOU.All this time I was NEVER in CONTROL of my MIND/self.In the meanwhile I collected so many Self-help material .At the moment Napoleon Hill's "Think & Grow Rich" audio book has shown me a way(method) out of my personal crisis and inspired/motivated me to take charge of my life. All the while I wasn't really sure where I'm going or what I'm going to do ,That PARALYZED me mentally and physically.I'm still working on myself and slowly understood that TRUE CONFIDENCE is a LIFE LONG JOURNEY.I'm bound/destined to go through UPS & DOWNS in my life but I NEED NOT FEAR anymore.I need to focus and get close with RIGHT PEOPLE(Those who accept me for who I am and help & support me at the time of need like Family members(if any).........relatives(if any).......Friends..........Well wishers....Good Books(they are the best ) or any other trustworthy person.....)And in the future also these PEOPLE WILL HELP me at the time of NEED & will GIVE ME EMOTIONAL & MORAL SUPPORT.
"Don't wait. The time will never be just right."
Its our life and the DECISION of TAKING CHARGE of our lives PURELY depends on OURSELVES.
“You are the only person on earth who can use your ability.” Zig Ziglar
So when is the RIGHT time to make such decisions?(I got my answer through PERSONAL EXPERIENCE and taking helpful IDEAS from Self-help and inspirational material.)
I leave this question open to all those people who are struggling with their lives and looking for ways to help themselves.I say FEEL FREE to DECIDE FOR YOURSELF ( as there are NO RULES/MEASURE TO SAY WHEN A PERSON WILL TAKE DECISION TO BETTER HIS LIFE AND HOW FAR WILL HE/SHE SUCCEED)
“Your attitude, not your aptitude, will determine your altitude” Zig Ziglar quotes
My best wishes to all of you for your future!:)