I have been with my boyfriend for 17 months. I am very happy with him. He is mexican, and I am white. Our relationship has been terrific. There has only been one problem. His mom hates me. I hate to say or think it, but its because I am not of the same race. I have had dinner with his family multiple times, and the whole time I'm ignored. They know I do not speak spanish, and when my boyfriend tries to include me in the conversation, they all start speaking spanish. I try not to let it hurt my feelings, but I have honestly never done anything to make her not like me. Him and I have been together for so long, you would think thatshe would drop it and try, for her oldest son, to get along with me. It just gets so frustrating sometimes.
SunshineSnowFlower SunshineSnowFlower
18-21, F
1 Response Aug 4, 2010

I wish the generations before could accept what you have said. I've never looked at it from the point of it changing the world. That was very smart. :) if they could just realize that it is a benefit I would be content.