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Doesn't Matter

Who you love, as long as you love instead of hate.
Why is love EVER a problem? I don't understand people that can't see that, and recognize its fundamental truth.
msdamgoode msdamgoode 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 10, 2012

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I guess it depends on what we mean by love. Some people assume every buzzing chemical reaction inside them that makes them attracted to someone should be declared; but what if it's just a passing sensation, that if acted upon could jeapordize a marriage and a family?

One way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost. We do not care for the love that we currently have, but we cry when it's lost. Cherish our relationships with our loved one, friends and family. Things that we don’t appreciate will depreciate and the best way to appreciate love is to imagine ourselves without them.

To get to love, you have to go through scary places (acceptance, understanding, etc...) and hate is an instintual urge so it's easier to hate than love. Many people are just scared or just driven by their instintual urges ^_^